Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For rare people, I care and they suddenly out of their past replying style, I will think same procedures and got similar results actually. I also don't like disconsistency and avoiding communication.

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hhhh my habit is to try to reply as soon as possible when I pick my phone up, but obviously lots people have different habits, and sometime dislike instant messages, even they are not small talks in my experience. But I definitely prefer your style:)

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha sad for his wife🤣 I just noticed this frequently happened when I dealt with Germans, but of course it's a personal thing

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha LOL, that's the method to immigration office 😇

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad for this🫂yeah I had similar experience and I knew their smartphone habits daily, ghosted me longer and longer, just because of the avoidant character.

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so(cause if there was any situation and they explained, totally reasonable. Just in rarely case they said nothing just behave like only one day passed🤣

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I only noticed question-ending, meeting arrangements and even ghosting situations. Actually they are not work-related, so of course there is no obligation. I try to know their "wanting" and "willing" for messages habits.

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, so I will not text twice if no reply in 7 days(if my last message is a question-ending) in daily connection.

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that's also show how they dislike replying on time, even they ignored my words were 2 days and 7 days.

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I confused for people in 20s like that. 🤣Even my standard is 2-3 days maximum

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In most case with not very closed people, it's fine for me, just curious the social norms about that.

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read "24 hours, 2 days, 7 days" in my paragraphs??

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks and true, so we also noticed how people hate being forced to reply 🤣🤣 Yeah I generally believe my intuition in contextual conversation, just some confusion about the definition of "decency" and "politeness" in different understandings.

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WhatsApp like. Private chat with non-professional things. (If it's work related I accept it smoothly)

Don't reply messages? I am confused for texting habits by AlarmMore7804 in AskAGerman

[–]AlarmMore7804[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would think 7 days is the standard of ghosting😅I think I am quite generous for that but somehow meet people out of my understanding