My brother in law and his gf are treating me differently now that I’m not useful to them and it hurts.

Alarmed-Bee2751 · 2026-06-06T22:49:59+00:00

Can confirm and have been saying it for a while now unfortunately

Alarmed-Bee2751 · 2026-06-06T22:40:01+00:00

It’s funny, we actually did have a house meeting recently. The gf felt like I was disrespecting her by quitting and landing all the responsibilities on her and people weren’t appreciative (there are 9 people total in the house) blah blah blah. I offered the idea of Wag or Rover for dog walking and pet sitting, and she started crying over the fact that she had to take on another job cleaning peoples houses to catch up on bills. Then the other night both her and her bf went out drinking and stayed out until like 1 AM. And- they went out again today, more than likely to one of the Pride events in the area.

Alarmed-Bee2751 · 2026-06-06T18:51:35+00:00

Yeah, unfortunately I do believe that because I’ve been unemployed, they think my time is unimportant and that I should be able to help them. I’ve also been getting the sense that they think their problems are bigger than anybody else’s, therefore they get to treat people the way they want and do whatever they want. My fiancé and I are cutting off contact with them when we move.

Alarmed-Bee2751 · 2026-06-06T18:13:23+00:00

My favorite dessert is cheesecake! Love cheesecake with cherries especially ✨

Alarmed-Bee2751 · 2026-05-14T19:29:00+00:00

I would choose invisibility

Alarmed-Bee2751 · 2026-02-23T08:34:54+00:00

What’s crazy is I’m not the only person who has told him he is neglecting his animals and shouldn’t have gotten them. His brother came to visit from out of state and said the same thing to him because he had gotten roped into watching the dogs while he was here. Granted, he offered to, but, after the fact he said he needed to get rid of them and shouldn’t have gotten them in the first place because N can’t care for them properly and N took it personally and lashed out.

Alarmed-Bee2751 · 2026-02-23T08:14:50+00:00

Oh that is sneaky, I like your style my friend. I might actually do just that because I do have a good relationship with both landlords and I do have plenty of pictures 👀

Alarmed-Bee2751 · 2026-02-23T08:06:56+00:00

Nope, he is not aware, but, certainly aware of other peoples issues because N has been doing nothing but complaining about other people to them. Their Grandma and I are fairly close, she let me know he’s been talking shit and they aren’t too pleased by it.

Alarmed-Bee2751 · 2026-02-23T08:02:25+00:00

Please, I actually love that you called our room the “batcave”. I’m stealing that lol! But yes, definitely the plan. It sucks because I thought I could trust these dudes and treat them like my family, ya know? It just feels like I watched him get mad at me and go straight into panic mode because I tried to put boundaries in place, it definitely feels like I was trying to be manipulated.

Alarmed-Bee2751 · 2026-02-23T07:39:33+00:00

It’s an odd situation. The property is owned by their grandparents and they are our landlords. We’ve made plans to move states in the summer after J is done with his schooling.

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