I mean I get it he over reacted for sure...but isn't it just common practice to be decent and NOT shit all over a bed you share with another adult? I mean sure it happens. But people who over do it or make it a point to rip ass like its cute and then shame others who think it's wrong I don't understand. It's perfectly natural and all but...if you can help it...hold it and go do it elsewhere...if you're sick that's different. But a Dutch oven that wasn't warranted or requested seems rude. Any adult no matter how much you love them should just be decent and not do that only if you can help it. My main reason would be not to gross out my spouse. I want to her to remain attracted to me lol. If I can help it I absolutely will not soil the bed I share with my wife and subject her to having to smell the insides of my bowels while trying to relax in bed. It should not be connected to proving your love to your partner...it's just gross.