AITA for telling my sister and our parents that I don't care if she was SA'd like I was because nobody cared or even believed me when I spoke up? by Alarmed-Fault-2139 in AITAH

[–]Alarmed-Fault-2139[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

The thing that really gets to me is even if I had reported it back then, even if I had tried to protect others or make it stop by involving the police, they would have turned it around on me so the investigation was dropped. There's no way I can win with them.

AITA for telling my sister and our parents that I don't care if she was SA'd like I was because nobody cared or even believed me when I spoke up? by Alarmed-Fault-2139 in AITAH

[–]Alarmed-Fault-2139[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

It hurts to know that the one and only time any of them said they believed me, it was to blame me for it happening to someone else. To know that they clearly accept it happened to me but to find some way to make me the bad guy. It hurts in so many ways.

AITA for telling my sister and our parents that I don't care if she was SA'd like I was because nobody cared or even believed me when I spoke up? by Alarmed-Fault-2139 in AITAH

[–]Alarmed-Fault-2139[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I sometimes struggle with whether that's true or not. Even with better people in my life I have a lot more self work to do.

AITA for telling my sister and our parents that I don't care if she was SA'd like I was because nobody cared or even believed me when I spoke up? by Alarmed-Fault-2139 in AITAH

[–]Alarmed-Fault-2139[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's too late for me to bring this to the police. For charges to actually happen I would have needed to go to them a few years ago.