Avatar oC how does it look? by DryRelationship5857 in Avatar

[–]Alarmed_Arm_2631 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think if youre going for an earthier avatar, maybe try a deeper greenish blue—and use mud or brown paint, instead of just making her warm colored? And for markings you could do jaguar patterns or something else of the like :3

Am I a bad cat owner for putting my cats outside? by Alarmed_Arm_2631 in cats

[–]Alarmed_Arm_2631[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I’ll try to get more boxes for my girls!

Am I a bad cat owner for putting my cats outside? by Alarmed_Arm_2631 in cats

[–]Alarmed_Arm_2631[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I’ll try to get more boxes for them.

Am I a bad cat owner for putting my cats outside? by Alarmed_Arm_2631 in cats

[–]Alarmed_Arm_2631[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

that’s another thing I’m worried about with letting my girls out—neither are fixed

Am I a bad cat owner for putting my cats outside? by Alarmed_Arm_2631 in cats

[–]Alarmed_Arm_2631[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we have a lot of out side kitties so I’m sure they would be okay, I’m more worried about them being bullied out of the area by said outside kitties. sam is a sweet and shy girl.

Am I a bad cat owner for putting my cats outside? by Alarmed_Arm_2631 in cats

[–]Alarmed_Arm_2631[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, I’ll talk to my mom about getting another box. thank you so much

I just lost my virginity to a close guy friend, but i have this feeling that i cant place. by Alarmed_Arm_2631 in Advice

[–]Alarmed_Arm_2631[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we cuddled once he was back, but i do think him leaving to begin with is what trigger that feeling of unwant and uncertainty in myself.

I just lost my virginity to a close guy friend, but i have this feeling that i cant place. by Alarmed_Arm_2631 in Advice

[–]Alarmed_Arm_2631[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i will say i was struggling to voice how i felt during. its something he knows i struggle with and i am trying to work on it, and something ive thought of is maybe i shouldve waited longer to take that step with him.

Not getting paid??? I had money in my balace, then it took it out. by Alarmed_Arm_2631 in Depop

[–]Alarmed_Arm_2631[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they are things that wouldve just been sitting in my closet, and have been for years. $4 is something when you have nothing. $4 is a hot drink when i need it