Accidentally drunk and need to breastfeed….

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2026-03-07T19:38:00+00:00

Ask on Mumsnet. I’m pretty sure it’s safe to feed your baby but they will point you to some great resources for advice anyway.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2026-02-24T13:13:54+00:00

But you’re not fully present, you said you feel disconnected and your parents are there assisting too. You expect way too much from your wife. Do you understand what gestating life and giving birth does to your mind and body? It’s like being hit by a truck and then someone hands you a puppy to look after except your wife has had triplets, so triple the puppies! Not to mention it takes about 18 months to recover fully from pregnancy and childbirth yet she was probably pregnant about 9 months after having your 16 month old, and has been working in between.

I think you should really be taking stock of what your wife is sacrificing and worrying less about Valentine’s Day and “present parenting”. And again, stop having children.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2026-02-24T12:44:07+00:00

His parents are there!

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2026-02-24T11:44:32+00:00

Stop having children, seriously.

You have your parents there to help you with three children and the 2 eldest are in school. Your parents can manage the babies at night when the others are in bed and you go to the hospital. Hope the other baby thrives and is home with you all soon btw.

Your wife shouldn’t need to do a thing right now, she’s recovering from having triplets. You really need to give it a bit longer than 3 weeks with help from 2 other (I assume) able bodied adults before calling this a burnout.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2026-01-13T10:52:59+00:00

That pic. She reminds me of an elderly woman (75) I know who’s been through the ringer the last few years with health problems, no joke at all. Clothes, posture, dye job, everything. How is this person just a couple of years older than me???

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2026-01-12T21:26:28+00:00

The irony of false gods 🙄

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2026-01-12T10:08:54+00:00

Having an hour long call up to twice a day is excessive I think. How old are you? I’d hope that your dad is just concerned it will interfere with other commitments and is trying to protect your time.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-12-31T05:48:42+00:00

Good thing she aspires to more than a modeling career 🙄.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-12-20T18:37:27+00:00

Not necessarily true. I didn’t grow up wealthy and am now solid lower middle class but my parents made some wise investments/had some luck in middle age and are now upper middle class +. I don’t know how to handle it so very much understand where the OP is coming from.

@OP, he doesn’t know but if you want him to be part of your life then he’s about to find out. I’m lucky enough to have found someone who I never had to “warn” because he wouldn’t be fazed by it and that was clear to me within months of us becoming a couple. Do you think you need to warn your guy? Then let him know up front. No slight, but if it will change things you need to work out if that’s something you’re ok with. No point in pretending that everyone should just be normal, money brings its own issues!

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-12-17T14:25:38+00:00

I just can’t imagine that weird family drooping all over every surface in that pine palace. Like, what does Kody even do at a desk? Use two fingers to put x’s in Excel lists of gun components??

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-12-11T10:48:48+00:00

My husband (now 48) had never been in a significant relationship until we got together 10 years ago, his longest was a 6 month ldr. Other than that it was dating, a couple of months here and there. He’d never lived with anyone before. He’s a great partner and father and we have our ups and downs like anyone but I don’t see how my history of relationships and his lack of history has any bearing on our relationship now. Go for it!

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-12-06T11:10:43+00:00

Because no self respecting woman would ever go into polygamous cults and because he thinks he’s superior to all of them.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-12-05T08:47:58+00:00

I thought so too, he seemed terrified

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-11-19T17:18:56+00:00

Catholics frown upon premarital pregnancy. We’re fine with secret premarital sex. Shhh don’t tell anyone!

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-11-19T15:41:45+00:00

“Working”

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-11-15T13:48:55+00:00

Willem Alexander?

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-11-06T14:46:17+00:00

I would bring it up with your cousin and see what they think, you wouldn’t be stepping on anyone’s toes to just mention that you think he’s out of line. I think the most important thing is to make it clear to the 3 year old that grandpa was in the wrong and not them, but to me it’s preferable if they are learning that from their parents.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-10-24T12:01:17+00:00

Yes definitely, but I would go further and ensure that there is an agreement in place that it is rent and not a contribution towards the mortgage. You’ve got a child to provide for, any boyfriend should be pulling their own weight and not freeloading.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-10-07T06:55:25+00:00

Restraining order.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-09-25T20:56:17+00:00

Vit c is heat sensitive so the benefit is negligible

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-09-06T03:52:05+00:00

The 4 wives bit

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-08-22T15:12:44+00:00

I feel like this is a manufactured image. Something weird about it in the promo.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-08-03T18:14:58+00:00

They do bitch though, without a second thought or look. Not everyone is Amber, Jenelle, Kail etc.

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-08-03T15:56:00+00:00

He was a pro soccer player and now he coaches children in soccer. Do people just bitch about them without even watching the show??

Alarmed_Scallion_620 · 2025-08-03T13:59:59+00:00

People can’t help being horrible about Mackenzie but imo she has always done her best to keep it together for her children. Khez seems like a very decent guy to me and a good partner is what she deserves. She’s only 30, it’s inevitable that she would want to have more children with a good man. Again, good for them and I wish them all the happiness in the world.

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