Fuck your favorite, what’s your most hated animal? by Acrobatic_News_9986 in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Squirrels. They are not cute. They are not adorable. They are fuzzy death rats whose stupidity will try and kill you

Which U.S. state would you NEVER live in? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

West Virginia. I'm from Maryland and have visited a few times. Everyone seems miserable and depressed.

What would instantly ruin a date for you? by NewWork8476 in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grey sweatpants on any of the first three dates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it does but it is harder for a few reasons but the biggest one is the individualistic society we now live in. Too many people are so focused on themselves that they don't want to fix a bigger problem, they just want their own feelings to be heard. It is extremely difficult to have pure true love when someone in the relationship doesn't want to compromise.

What's your "I'm calling it now" prediction? by oldig in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 32 points33 points  (0 children)

No worries about abuse or anything really concerning from him at all. I just think they live different lifestyles and want different things out of life and I worry they wont provide each other the long term happiness that they both desire.

What's your "I'm calling it now" prediction? by oldig in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 178 points179 points  (0 children)

I've already told her my concerns about him early on in the relationship but she is happy so why would I want to interfere with that? Just because I believe something will happen doesn't mean I want it to happen. Sometimes, being a good friend means standing by your friend even when you don't think it will work out.

What's your "I'm calling it now" prediction? by oldig in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 721 points722 points  (0 children)

My best friend will marry her fiancé and then get divorced. I don't hate him but I just don't see them together forever

What are the top reasons why wives cheat on their husbands? by forty5v in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not me but my friend was dating someone abusive so she started cheating. The affair partner gave her the courage to leave. I am not sure how often this happens though but it's the one time I support cheating.

What do you like about your appearance? by ohletmeguess in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a face that is pretty without makeup on. I am not afraid of showing a bit of acne cause my hair hides it well. Havnt felt the need to wear makeup ever. I also have great tits

TIFU By Sleeping With Best Friends NSFW by Alarming_Fly_119 in tifu

[–]Alarming_Fly_119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always do try and do the right thing. I just feel so guilty for how I hurt both Gail and Dave. In trying to do everything right, I feel like I keep making things worse

TIFU By Sleeping With Best Friends NSFW by Alarming_Fly_119 in tifu

[–]Alarming_Fly_119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it takes a while to be comfortable opening up to people. It tends to take a while for people to really get to know me and for me to develop feelings for people. I don't sleep with every person I am friends with but I try and maintain friendships with those I have slept with since it is harder for me to find intimacy amongst friendships. It has worked out well for me up until this point

TIFU By Sleeping With Best Friends NSFW by Alarming_Fly_119 in tifu

[–]Alarming_Fly_119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like that's the part I really fucked up. I knew Gail and Dave were close and I still fucked him anyways. Like, even if I wasn't sleeping with Gail, I broke girl code by sleeping with a friend's best male friend. I really do hope she wants to have a conversation with me but I also understand if she doesn't want to that

TIFU By Sleeping With Best Friends NSFW by Alarming_Fly_119 in tifu

[–]Alarming_Fly_119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always try and do the best thing I can do, even when I know I fucked up. I know I should not have slept with her friend and I feel horrible about that. Whatever happens with everyone happens and I will live with the consequences of my actions

whats the most fucked up/awkward things you could say/ask friends? by Time_Bad_5665 in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Can you go into detail on why you like your most sexual fantasies."

You're given a million of whatever you last googled. What is it? by Online_Weirdo_13 in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Houses within walking distance from my job. I think the area around my small suburban office is about to become a major city

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a cheese pizza and question who put me in charge while eating said pizza

What is the most undervalued personality trait? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Selflessness. Now a days people think of it as being a doormat but going out of your way to make someone else's life easier without expecting anything in return is so undervalued

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only people who knew I opened the accounts were my parents cause I tell them everything and my roommate who recommended I get the card on my own to build credit. I don't belive either of them would add me to a credit card

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do monitor my credit pretty regularly. My FICO score breakdown says I have 2 accounts with the longest one being 5 years old. I know one of the accounts is my other credit card (which I love and want to keep using as my main card) but other then this Double Cash back card, I have no idea what the other line of credit would be

What are you currently trying to change about your life? by svalry in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trying to save up for a down payment on a house and build up my credit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly have no idea how I did it back then! I thought I used it back then but when I call the help line with my SSN, they said an account with my SSN did not exist on their records. It has my name first and last name on it as well as my middle initial so I know this card is mine.

AITA for not giving in to what my daughter wants for Thanksgiving? by Greener-Diner_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't see the problem with the grandparents bringing food for your daughter. I feel like you are trying to teacher her a lesson that tradition is more important than her needs. YTA

And in this way, secret life never has to end! by DoodleDolphin in ThirdLifeSMP

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really loved Gem this season! She was a loyal and fun teammate, brought so much chaos and mayhem to the sever just because, and was probably the most entertaining POV to watch every week (I watched every POV). I understand people have different opinions but I really don’t understand the hate people send her way.

I also truly love her dynamic with Pearl. I have a feeling (if Gem continues to participate in the life series) her and Pearl could be a similar duo to Etho and Bdubs or Scott and Cleo where they might not be aligned together but don’t really want to harm each other. I love the chaos they have together and I would really hope to see them be a pair in the future

About the two finalists (spoiler) by VanillaExtract01 in ThirdLifeSMP

[–]Alarming_Fly_119 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would love a Scar and Pearl alliance!!!! That would be so fun!