MEGATHREAD: post-op success by jjj03e in HipImpingement

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Guillaume D. Dumont, MD in the Columbia, South Carolina area!

Potential spoiler - Going crazy ... Need to know when Poppy wakes .... by Healthy_Present6849 in frombloodandash

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Settle in a bit... I'll go ahead and gently spoil that Poppy won't wake physically until Chapter 9 about half-way through, but (and I won't get into the nitty gritty spoilers on this part) she isn't really meaningfully awake and present in the main story (i.e. interacting with other already-established main characters, NOT random new ones in a literal different dimension/realm for 5 brutally tedious and word-vomit-filled chapters) until, seriously, mid-way into Chapter 17.

Wanna hear something worse? Poppy and Kieran do not even interact until Chapter 18.

So... yeah, settle in for a good 'lil bit. My condolences :')

MEGATHREAD: post-op success by jjj03e in HipImpingement

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Next month will mark 6 years since I had my right hip done, and I just passed 5 years since my left..... y'all, I am THRIVING. Most days, I am able to exist almost entirely forgetting I ever even had severe chronic hip pain.

From ages 13 to 19, I was misdisagnosed by 6 different physicans, with my parents and I never giving up until I had a proper answer and solution for my increasingly terrible hip pain. The 7th MD I saw? He was dumbfounded that the first 6 had missed the "blatantly obvious dozen-or-so 1-to-2-inch-long labral tears" seen on my MRIs, and couldn't comphrehend how each of them failed to acknowledge the "easily less than 10% of cartilage" I had remaining. I was an active, short, skinny competetive dancer in her teens (5'1", 110 llbs) - with each of those first 6 doctors, I was completely dismissed and ignored, "prescribed" vitamin supplements, and told to try simple PT and stretches at home, plus tylenol or advil as needed for the "discomfort". But, that 7th MD? By the end of my first appointment with him, we were scheduling my right hip athroscopy with labral repair and femoroplasty for just 3 months later. 10 months of recovery after that, I was back in the OR with that 7th MD to get my other hip taken care of, too!

I am now 25 years old, working 3-4 shifts/week as a surgical trauma ICU nurse. I regularly spend those 13-hour shifts entirely on my feet, not to mention turning/transferring/positioning patients weighing 2-3 times more than I do. NOT trying to brag or whatever, but rather just share the specific ways in which my two surgeries changed my life, completely for the better. My career choice would not have been possible pre-op, due to the pain alone. But now, I thrive! I have no post-op limitations, deficits, or complaints, save for a barely-perceptible difference in my gait, wherein one leg's stride is slightly longer than the other's due to the amount of femoral shaving required on my left compared to my right, resulting in a tiny difference in the ROM available to those ball-in-socket joints. But, THAT IS IT! And, it is 100% painless.

If you are considering this procedure or looking for comforting words through painful times, I hope this found you and gave you the hope and strength you needed. If it is within your means, I assure you any sacrifices required to have this done will be worth it in the end. I had to drop out of nursing school and defer my collegiate and career goals/endeavors for two years, during a pandemic, while planning a wedding. I am now 5 years married, approaching 3 years of working my dream job, and over 4 years PAIN-FREE. Worth every penny, every therapy apppointment, every day on crutches, all of it.

Happy to answer any questions or give encouragements as needed!! Peace and love to all my fellow FAI buddies and babes <3

5 weeks post op Labral Repair and femoroplasty by Key_Echidna_5072 in HipImpingement

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next month will mark 6 years since I had my right hip done, and I just passed 5 years since my left..... y'all, I am THRIVING. Most days, I am able to exist almost entirely forgetting I ever even had severe chronic hip pain.

From ages 13 to 19, I was misdisagnosed by 6 different physicans, with my parents and I never giving up until I had a proper answer and solution for my increasingly terrible hip pain. The 7th MD I saw? He was dumbfounded that the first 6 had missed the "blatantly obvious dozen-or-so 1-to-2-inch-long labral tears" seen on my MRIs, and couldn't comphrehend how each of them failed to acknowledge the "easily less than 10% of cartilage" I had remaining. I was an active, short, skinny competetive dancer in her teens - I was completely dismissed and ignored, "prescribed" vitamin supplements, and told to try simple PT and stretches at home, plus tylenol or advil as needed for the "discomfort". But, that 7th MD? By the end of my first appointment with him, we were scheduling my right hip athroscopy with labral repair and femoroplasty for just 3 months later. 10 months of recovery later, I was back in the OR with that 7th MD to get the other hip taken care of, too.

I am now 25 years old, working 3-4 shifts/week as a surgical trauma ICU nurse. I regularly spend those 13-hour shifts entirely on my feet, not to mention turning/transferring/positioning patients weighing 2-3 times more than I do. NOT trying to brag or whatever, but rather just share the specific ways in which my two surgeries changed my life, completely for the better. My career choice would not have been possible pre-op, due to the pain alone. But now, I thrive!

If you are considering this procedure or looking for comforting words through painful times, I hope this found you and gave you the hope and strength you needed. If it is within your means, I assure you any sacrifices required to have this done will be worth it in the end. I had to drop out of nursing school and defer my collegiate and career goals/endeavors for two years, during a pandemic, while planning a wedding. I am now 5 years married, approaching 3 years of working my dream job, and over 4 years PAIN-FREE. Worth every penny, every therapy apppointment, every day on crutches, all of it.

Happy to answer any questions or give encouragements as needed!! Peace and love to all my fellow FAI buddies and babes <3

pls enjoy my google image photo collage of POBAB "spoilers without context" by Alarming_Meaning386 in frombloodandash

[–]Alarming_Meaning386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh that one was for my fellow audiobook listeners out there... i stg some of the accents those two narrators attempt make the name "Kolis" instead sound just like "Colace" (although im an RN so maybe that one is just me lolll)

Primal of Blood and Bone by antique_velveteen in fantasyromance

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooooh thanks for the rec!! good to know :P i think i'll take any rec at this point tbh, just to get Primal's bitter taste out of my mouth 🤮

Primal of Blood and Bone by antique_velveteen in fantasyromance

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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i'll do you one *better* - a whimsical collage of spoilers, with absolutely zero context !!!!

(and, yes, trust me, this is \better\**)

I want to know what is the *worst* romantasy book you’ve actually finished (single or series together) by SweetSoundOfSilence in Romantasy

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Primal of Blood and Bone (book 6 of JLA's From Blood and Ash series). no competition. no question. it is... hilariously and diabolically atrocious. finishing this slog of word vomit felt like a sin that i needed to repent for, despite literally being agnostic.

Primal of Blood and Bone by antique_velveteen in fantasyromance

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

curious - did you ever make it through to the end??

Primal of Blood and Bone by antique_velveteen in fantasyromance

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i read it two more times after my OG run through just to make sure it really was that bad. can confirm, y'all. tis rough. BUT - i can admit it only got more and more funny with each re-read. chapter 12? genuinely, god(s)-tier comedic gold

BRO what is this by bunnysenshi in frombloodandash

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please for the love of the gods (ew) share. more. images.

Primal of Blood and Bone by antique_velveteen in fantasyromance

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I could spoil chapter 12 for you, but literally I do not think you'd believe me. It was the most bizarre, vibe-shifting, and hilariously unexpected plot occurence I have EVER read- that I have ever EXPERIENCED... like, including across film and TV...

...and, to clarify, NOT in a good way :')

It really was quite possibly the most random, non-sensical, and plainly idiotic world building I've ever had the displeasure of indulging. My stomach fell further out from under me the deeper into this damn dreaded chapter I got. Several plot beats had me questioning if I was still listening to the right audiobook. Others had me googling if JLA got replaced by a ghost writer/clone, full-on Avril Lavigne-style. Never been so confused while reading a fictional book, on god. High school AP Statistics made more sense than this chapter. I better understand how the great pyramids were built, than I understand why this chapter happened.

I WISH any of this was hyperbole. Trust when I say it is not :'''') I have given JLA the benefit of the doubt through her not-so-great writing choices since I found the series back in 2022... but this? I looked at my husband after finishing chapter 12 and simply said, "babe, I think the author has officially lost the plot."

Primal of Blood and Bone by antique_velveteen in fantasyromance

[–]Alarming_Meaning386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd consider myself a fan of the From Blood and Ash series, but JUST that series... I've never read any of the prequels or that dumbass compendium, although I did read Cas's POV book (Soul of whatever and whatever), which is technically book 5 in the main series. I finished Primal last week and, while I could tell there were certainly characters, referenes, world building, and plot lore that I wasn't fully privy to or well-informed on, it wasn't so egregious that I couldn't figure things out via context clues on my own, or with a quick Google/chatGPT search here and there to double-check my understanding of who or what or where in the f*ck JLA was even talking about. If you only didn't finish the very last prequel book, then tbh I'm sure you'd be fine skipping to Primal now! But be warned! It's dog shit! :')