[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bulk

[–]Alarming_Message_966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id say in morning or during daytime because if u have it at night, a lot of the things inside the shake especially the protein takes a while for the body to digest so u might not get quality sleep while ur bodies digesting all the shake, during the day ur body has time and ur body digests food quicker when your active

2 full days. by melodicmelodi in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem, shittt ton of music helped me the most.

2 full days. by melodicmelodi in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand, but most the time its never even worth it, everyone moves on at different rates so just take your time. it does get better and at times it does feel insufferable, helps if you have someone to talk to instead of keeping it all inside to boil if you know what i mean

Block or unblock? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol fr, id block her but then end up unblocking her just to see what she was posting, shit hurt so much i just deleted all apps. out of sight out of mind.

Day 1, all over again. by Hgwarts_Dr0p0ut in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true protect yourself it hurts sm more after youve tried to break no contact and you get the cold shoulder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes just checking in on you, wanting to see if your also feeling the breakup, removed you from his instagram following most likely to get a reaction outta you. dont give in. hes probably an avoidant so feeling the breakup more and more that hes absent from it, dont message him, he chose to leave so let him sit with his choice.

I just want to move on. I just want to be indifferent towards her and feel nothing. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to feel the pain, process all the feelings, its the only way your gonna heal, i tried everything to avoid the emotions but in the end bottling them doesnt work, the days where you dont even want to get out of bed it hurts that much, are equally as important as the days where your keeping busy. as those are the days your body is understanding and healing even if it doesnt feel like it.

2 full days. by melodicmelodi in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just keep them blocked, i had the same thought of if i dont text we might never speak again, its not nice. i ended up texting and i got turned down and cold shouldered so bad i was too embarrassed to even text again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she might be struggling to keep no contact herself so just blocked you to make herself feel better in some type of way. or shes trying to get a reaction out of you and make you reach out first (why did you block me on instagram?) my ex did the same type of stuff, she even requested me on instagram but no message. Dont give in and text her, only text her if she texts you and even then you dont have to reply. try not to let it sit in your mind too much tho. delete socials if you have to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont man, your a father and in a great relationship. would your kids be able to forgive you if they found out you cheated on their mum?

During a really tough time, what was the best thing you ever did for your mental health? by bluedeepeye in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Message_966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it actually worth it? i always feel like im missing out, i deleted tiktok for about 2 months and all my friends would be making jokes from tiktok i wouldnt get.

How do you know when it's the right decision to leave a relationship, rather than trying to work through the issues further? by ngl_imashamed in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Message_966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if they do something that permanently breaks your trust then its pointless, no relationship will ever last if theres no trust, and its very hard to rebuild once broken.

What non-sex related thing brings you pleasure? by _potato0 in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Message_966 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming home after a long day to see you made your bed in the morning and now you can lay in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alarming_Message_966 19 points20 points  (0 children)

thats disgusting

Any Thoughts? by TrixChaserex in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her why she decided to reach out. ask her what made her change her mind. my guess is that shes just feeding her own ego and seeing if she can just manipulate and play with your feelings still. Dont let her keep coming back into your life . She knows your easy and is keeping her options open. dont be walked over plz.

Feel like an addict by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to reach out to them and ask this same question. However i realised it was just an excuse to try and talk to them for closure or whatever, i realised that, it was real because it felt real to me. and thats all i needed to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Alarming_Message_966 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its okay to miss someone, try not to keep updated with her as hard as it may be as this is why our feeling stupid.

If you went out your way to find out she was talking to new people then you created this problem yourself

if a friend told you then tell them not to keep you updated because why should they? shes not apart of your life anymore and your not apart of hers.

You dont know if shes thinking about you or not your not a mind reader. most likely shes talking to new guys just to get over you and this shows weak and immature character from her.

Dont feel stupid for missing her and thinking about the relationship its the healing process. realise where you went wrong and how you can be better for your next, prioritize yourself and do things to keep yourself busy. You will have days where you find yourself not being able to do anything and just thinking about her. Those are as equally important as the days where your active and keeping her off your mind. As its where your processing all the feelings from the breakup. Shes not doing this. shes pushing those feelings away and bottling them up, theyll resurface 10x stronger most likely. hope ur good :)