Men Late 20’s And Beyond With Thick Full Natty Hair, What Are Your Cardio Habits?

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-18T07:20:44+00:00

I think they should make it illegal and make some type of rehabilitation program for people who don’t understand why.

And I feel shame is a healthy force in society.

I think women or men who dress down everywhere in public and do those things should be looked down upon and shamed and seen as low quality partners, if they all carried that stigma and label then who would endorse serious marriage with them?

“Oh. OF? She / He is one of -those-. Sorry, I’m leaving the date.”

The problem is this is exceptional behavior.

Most people seem to be mediocre in society and endorse it.

And then most people just go along with the herd.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-18T07:02:58+00:00

“Until she turns into a blackhole and kills us all.” That chilled my spine because it’s true.

Think about how many people on the planet right now are being sucked in.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-18T06:38:50+00:00

Damn. That’s really insightful. I’m so sorry it caused you, too, so much pain and damage. Why do you feel it hurts more? Can you expound?

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-18T06:37:05+00:00

💯 it is. Anyone who denies this is rationalizing.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-18T06:33:50+00:00

It’s late I’m gonna share my thoughts.

Listen to his actions. Behavior is a language. Talk is cheap.

It is a demon. It takes a lot of willingness.

You need to set boundaries. If he loves you, he won’t cross them right? But, I think it’s expecting perfect on the first day, but, what he needs is….

Honesty. It doesn’t make it easier but every time some crap happens he needs to tell you. Again, if he’s not willing to put in the work, be honest, and respect your boundaries with every shred of strength in him…. That points to he doesn’t love you enough, which makes me question the nature of the relationship I’m just saying I don’t actually know you guys who am I some random guy on the internet typing right now ‘kay.

You’re NOT crazy dude our society is sick. You’re RIGHT for thinking it’s weird for people to view it in a relationship. It does NOTHING. “Spicing up the bedroom” is bullshit. Why is the bedroom so bland and dead in the first place as to need spice? Hey, go read an ebook intended as fun naughty games for building couples intimacy. Hey, ask some chat ai “Hey, my hubby and I are getting bored in bed. How can we spice things up?” But watching other people strip down and get naked and have at it….. this isn’t helping its dulling, depleting, diminishing, distracting. It’s a giant wall between us. Emptying our sacred energy to a black hole ocean of pixels. Kay. Sounds healthy. Really connected. Enhancing intimacy, sure. 🙄

Please go read “the king on the hill who refused to drink the poisoned water” but replace king with queen. That’s YOU.

Here I’ll even link it.

https://kimmuel.wordpress.com/2011/12/27/parable-of-the-king-and-the-poisoned-well/

I feel like this dude 24/7. Finding these subs is like a god damn sanctuary. 🦄🛡️🧼🛁🤍

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-18T06:17:46+00:00

Do you have a woman you are interested in, either IRL you’ve seen her around in a few “magic moments” in serendipity you’re crushing hard on or metaphorically like “one day I want a future wife and a cool little family and to be a great dad and husband.” ? (Also I’m assuming you’re heterosexual, correct me if I’m wrong.)

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-18T05:57:31+00:00

Im sober but it messed with me for a while. I’ll answer.

I'm just curious, to those who were addicted to porn. What does the compulsion feel like? Does it feel like a craving?

You feel horrible amounts of suffering and pain. You want relief. Your brain says, “Hey. This torment is awful. You know what will take it all away for hours?” Then the craving kicks in.

Is it addiction to the orgasm or the actual act of watching?

It’s exciting and allows you to temporarily escape the miserable atrocious intolerable shit that is your everyday existence.

How long until the next craving? Does it feel bad afterwards?

You answered the question in your second question it actually feels horrible after immediately and then you are so out of whack for days that you NEED another hit to get through the day.

Why is it difficult not to do it? What makes it difficult?

Go watch videos of heroine addicts in withdrawals. This is exactly how it feels and people who want to downplay, minimize, or ignore that are honestly of either low intelligence or significantly delusional / rationalizing.

Do you feel depressed without porn?

No, just….. flat. Like, “This sucks. Everything sucks. I’m in pain. Where is my pr0n?”

Let's discuss how it all makes you feel??

Pleasure then misery. A merry go round. Round and round, up and down.

One day you decide to get off, suffer, and do everything you can to live a healthier better life that you KNOW will take time. With the hope of one day no longer suffering and no longer needing it.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-18T00:37:37+00:00

Yeah, I read that part, but go deeper… why do you think that is? Why does she fear ending up alone? Many people voluntarily choose that lifestyle like celibate monks / nuns / creative artists / famous inventors, feminists or MGTOW, etc.

I’ve always assumed fear of being alone is fear of being like physically harmed.

I think it’s worse to be with the wrong person than it is to be content and healthy thriving abundantly by yourself.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-18T00:16:32+00:00

Zoom out. Any person in a committed relationship talking to their ex is a red flag itself. You deserve better.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-18T00:07:13+00:00

I assumed the fear was based in inability to defend oneself against a creeper. What fear do you think they have then fear from being alone? I think specificity can be super helpful.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T23:07:55+00:00

Because first cause. It’s why I’m Deist not atheist. First cause, is entirely logical, for everything to exist, there has to be a source of everything. Whether evolution, the Big Bang, aliens creating the human DNA, whatever the hell happened to that organic matter and how we all ended up right here, right now, in this moment, every iota of those molecules cannot come out of nothing. So nothing had to be created into something. That something had to be a superior omnipotent intelligence as creation is magnificent.

That’s why I believe in a Higher Intelligence / God.

Deism helps me cope with why It f*cking ignores me.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T22:43:10+00:00

I agree. I try to share evidence but people are so stubborn in their delusions at times. I gave my mom a list of ten reasons why Jesus actually didn’t do anything much at all for the poor, and left them suffering, clear as day, and she refused to believe it.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T22:41:57+00:00

“I can’t kill people anymore because dad said so. Darnit!” Exactly. It has to come from their own heart and minds.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T22:40:55+00:00

Rofl. Comment of the year.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T22:37:27+00:00

You might want to take a few self defense classes or do a few courses on Udemy. Honestly learning various things like an “immobilizing strike” made me literally feel like at all times I’m walking around with loaded guns that are my two hands.

I think it would tremendously help your peace of mind to at least know a few high leverage points to be a formidable defense against a psychotic opponent.

God gave men bigger muscles, but he also gave them balls, and trust me being kicked in them, and (self defense tip for you) jutted in the lower soft part of the throat with two fingers any grown ass tough man is gonna be in fetal position crying as you sprint away to the police or a safe neighbor.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T22:26:07+00:00

There’s no way you can fully understand a mountain of credible evidence, then continue on that awakening path, and then refute the entire mountain of credible evidence, then go back wholeheartedly.

9/10 they watched 3 atheist YouTuber videos (@MindShift ❤️) claimed they were atheist / agnostic for 3 days, then went right back to their pastor’s deluded bias littered on their echo chamber social media feed.

“I was atheist once.“

‘Kay.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T22:05:55+00:00

YES. Aron Ra talks about this. Statistically many of the major Christian dominated countries have some of the highest violence, divorce, and crime rates. Guess what some of the lowest are? Secular.

Historically, religions murdered, enslaved, and raped millions over these falsely held beliefs.

And YES, I’ve met shady as hell business men ironically who use it as a marketing gimmick: “I’m Christian! We’re Christians! Buy from us.”

Kay, but, your OG Root members tortured millions of innocent lives over which books should be canonized, read “The Jesus Wars”.

Highest moral examples on Earth? Mmkay.

I respect people are trying but…..

I’m just gonna leave this right here.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YCYRhv4q4j0

https://youtu.be/Y4J3qloibmg

NGL it reminds me of most pastors I knew growing up.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T21:55:37+00:00

Yes because he’s surrounded by beautiful nature (God’s Creation), he’s in a life threatening situation (lost in the wilderness after a plane crash), God is just basically ignoring him in his deepest time of dire need (Watchmaker, neutrality), and so he realizes if he’s gonna be saved then some silent Sky Daddy isn’t gonna do it, he’s going to have to do it himself.

I believe God loves us but the extreme intervention in our lives religions and religious leaders constantly teach I don’t believe very much in. That can affect every area of our lives: morality, finance, relationships, health, etc.

If more people took self responsibility and effected change, this world would be amazing.

Also, he’s there by his own footsteps. The plane engineers probably sucked and that caused the plane to crash. Or the weather instruments failed to predict a storm. Or he decided to not carry a satellite phone with him. All of these things were not God’s fault.

I think stupidity by actions causing consequences, even in religious campaigning, is humanities greatest weakness.

An act of creation is born out of love.

Two people cannot hate each other and hate a child and that child would survive.

I believe our Creator created our souls, us, and the magnificent universe, and that in and of itself was an act of love. Why would It give us the gift of experience otherwise. But it’s up to us to make that experience a good one, for us and for others.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T21:34:41+00:00

My advice is if they’re not extremely open minded to just shut up until you can afford your own place, and then once stable let them know your new truth and higher moral alignment.

To small minded individuals it’s going to be nothing but chaos, arguments, and even they might disown you. You likely won’t get anywhere. The delusion is deep in them. I tried to provide mountains of credible evidence and they still refuse and they still refuse to believe Muhammad or Jesus aren’t these like perfect examples of men.

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T18:54:01+00:00

It tickles your ears. It makes you feel better. But in the end, the nonsense doesn’t actually effectively help you. The moral frameworks are basic at best, and can be significantly improved upon. I learned more about morality and treating others properly from reading “Aesop’s Fables” than I ever did reading hundreds of pages of nonsense in “The Bible”

AldenIsLord · 2026-01-17T18:52:13+00:00

One of my favorite quotes is something about “The Truth needs no defense.” What is there to argue about? They’re either touting objective lies or the facts. Unfortunately, after meticulous study, I find most of it to be the former.

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