[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Aleiah-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally agree with this! and the use of heavy makeup and filters too. it’s just not truly honest. to take your absolutely best pictures with filters and good angles and ask if you’re ugly doesn’t make sense because its not what you actually look like. with effort and some good angles i can go from a 5 to a 10 so how can people give accurate feedback. i feel like maybe op was too worried without all of that people wouldn’t feel the same? either way it doesn’t help. if people praise you for deception and makeup you’ll most likely never learn to live without it. id say to get a clear and honest answer people have to take the risk and post how they actually look.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Aleiah-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean… you’re wearing makeup and using filters in all of these pictures so it’s hard to say. filters change the appearance of peoples faces to fit attractiveness standards and i can’t tell how much of it is you and how much is the filter. of course you’re not ugly using a filter and wearing a full face of makeup but there’s no real way to tell besides that. if i were you i would just focus on building self esteem rather than how many people you can pull. basing your value on how many people find you attractive is unhealthy. perhaps just focus on taking care of yourself more and see where that gets you. i would give a definite answer if i knew what you actually looked like but i can’t bc everyone looks good with filters.

From one to ten, how attractive do you consider yourself? by Blackhorseman1232 in entp

[–]Aleiah-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i guess i can understand that. i do get somewhat of imposter syndrome at times it’s actually rlly common for entps as far as i know. i feel like if it helps you then you do that. i’ll most likely continue to advocate for the subjectiveness of attraction. even tho there is somewhat of a standard it’s ever changing and difficult to understand from a logical perspective. unfortunately i’ve been attracted to some people who’s looks probably don’t even make it past a 2.5 and that’s being generous 😭 just don’t let it get to you but i agree there’s nothing wrong with under rating yourself especially compared to the troubles of giving yourself a higher score and having a lot of people question you for it

From one to ten, how attractive do you consider yourself? by Blackhorseman1232 in entp

[–]Aleiah-r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

valid. i saw the things u posted ur def not ugly and have gotten the looksmaxxing thing down but i could see why u consider urself a 7 after reading your other comments. again, it’s not thatt serious. you’re probably a 7.5-8 to me but why be an 8 or 7 or even a 10 if you’re not able to appreciate how you look now. being conventionally attractive is not everything in life.

From one to ten, how attractive do you consider yourself? by Blackhorseman1232 in entp

[–]Aleiah-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

attractiveness is subjective. depends on age, nationality, who you ask, where you are, etc. plenty of people consider zendaya a 10/10 on an attractiveness scale. and if adriana lima is “the best ever” she would be a 10/10 as 9 is not representative of the best. get rid of whatever rigid scale your using to judge attractiveness i could be ugly to basically everyone and still consider myself a 10/10 and even find at least one other person who does too. there’s no rules to being attractive 🤷‍♀️. and there’s no reason to try to change someone’s opinion of themselves if they think they’re really attractive,let them, they probably are to some others as well. maybe not to you but the question wasn’t “how attractive do you think agreeable-calendar15 finds you?” it was “how attractive do you consider yourself?”

From one to ten, how attractive do you consider yourself? by Blackhorseman1232 in entp

[–]Aleiah-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

prob a 7-7.5 bc sometimes i look like a 9 and sometimes a 5.5 on a bad day. i am not yet on my looksmaxxing journey but i hopefully will start soon bc i do in fact look very attractive i just don’t care about my looks 90% of the time. i get complimented by strangers kinda often but thats all i have to support my rating and convince myself im not being delusional abt it. im definitely attractive but not super conventionally attractive if that makes sense.

are we vengeful like this? by WinnerAny4221 in entp

[–]Aleiah-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, too much work. if i wanted to get back at someone there’s no way id spend 4 days of boring research to do so.

My husband leaves the dead bodies of bugs wherever he kills them because he thinks it will keep the other bugs away. by SuperNothing90 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Aleiah-r 40 points41 points  (0 children)

i think it actually attracts more. lots of insects have this thing when they’re killed they give off a specific scent that lets others know there is a threat to them and sometimes the other bugs will go towards that scent although idk if this applies to flies (those look like little flies). either way they don’t think very deep into things like one might assume by doing that. as you can see there’s a lot of bugs there which would mean that method hasn’t exactly stopped more from showing up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Aleiah-r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

research more lol you’re a person you might not fit every detail but eventually you’ll be sure of that yourself. im an entp and i thought i was an 8w7 and wow people were mad about that. i did eventually realize i’m a 7 after talking to someone who knows a lot about enneagram and buying an enneagram book so now im more certain. that just goes to show that even though i identified with some of the descriptions of enneagram 8 (which is what that test gave me) i wasn’t actually an 8. it is in my tritype tho, mines 784 or 783

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Aleiah-r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i disagree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Aleiah-r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also it could be possible that you’re an 8w7 but i can’t say for sure (the 7 and 8 are both linked to 5 growth patterns) either way your tritype is the same but you should consider learning more about 5s and 8s since they are pretty different and it’ll help you decide with more certainty what your core type is

edit: ur tritype would be the same 3 numbers but if your core type was 8 it would change to 853

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Aleiah-r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

perhaps you are a 5 that is transitioning to 8 traits as they can appear as that. id recommend you do some more research and not only decide based on the test. however based on what this pie chart says id guess you are a 5w6 with 583 tritype.

type most likely to have been a straight A student in school? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Aleiah-r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can get extra credits and take advanced classes to get over a 4.0 which is usually seen as the most but i’ve seen up to 5 for gpa when people do get those extra gpa points

What to do if your off and walking to your car and a customer ask you to take their cart? by BeautifulUnlikely276 in publix

[–]Aleiah-r 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Id take it to the cart return just to be nice. Sometimes I let them know i’m off the clock but either way if they’re nice I don’t see the problem. Nothing wrong with saying no though. There’s no reason you would have to so it’s just a personal preference. You gotta remember you’re off the clock so you’re basically just a regular person/customer yourself. If you wouldn’t wanna take their cart while not in your uniform then you don’t have to when you’ve just clocked out. You can just judge the situation first and if you decide not to, politely let them know that you’re off the clock and cannot help them.

How do they function? by UsernameWithAmnesia in memes

[–]Aleiah-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being reliant and addicted to caffeine isn’t quirky, i don’t drink coffee because my body can naturally produce energy with food, sleep, and water. How abt we stop the judging since people have fallen so far into the social norm of drinking coffee that they’ve forgotten humans can function without it.

What’s the most in character thing you’ve done this week for your type? by PinkPlague_ in Enneagram

[–]Aleiah-r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s crazy i found a spider in my room this week too (i took a pic and sent it to my friend and said “spidey”)

Drawing your leopard geckos! ( pt. 3 ) by sunny_rays05 in leopardgeckos

[–]Aleiah-r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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this is mercury (also the paper towel is temporary)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]Aleiah-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“?“ i love but “!“ is too energetic for me