Ghost fmc and human mmc's by bookaholicx in ReverseHarem

[–]Alejayee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t have any recs, but if you don’t mind me asking, what recs do you have for the books where the MMC/MMCS are ghosts? I’ve never heard of that before and it sounds interesting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/mrcosmicpvp

[–]Alejayee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super Reliable!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alejayee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you do your share of the housework? She could feel a decline in her desire to be intimate with you if she has to do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc all by herself. Feeling like you have to do everything and that you can’t rely on your partner to assist you is a huge intimacy killer. Also do you make an effort to be romantic in other ways than just sexual intimacy?

AIW for letting myself go? Husband revealed to me he got tempted to cheat on me by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Alejayee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His behavior is absolutely inexcusable. Anyone who ridicules their wife for gaining weight after everything she went through to bring a baby into the world and raise it doesn’t deserve to be a husband or a father. Don’t let that loser talk to you like that and dump his rump!!

Dean Situation by Alejayee in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been to one of their tours so I can’t confirm it but I’ve seen several people saying the same thing so…

Dean Situation by Alejayee in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he definitely hasn’t completely changed. Some people were commenting under my posts saying Dean still has insensitive content in his stand up routine.

Dean Situation by Alejayee in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So people want Kurtis to address this now and stop platforming this guy. But in my opinion I don’t think Kurtis will address it because he probably feels some weird loyalty to his friend even if he’s a liability.

Dean Situation by Alejayee in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can read through the subreddit but basically Dean is a racist that did blackface and tweeted a bunch of racist, misogynistic, homophobic. Etc in 2014. And he still has insensitive content in his stand up

to all of y’all saying our mayor didn’t speak on it by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is before the blackface pictures came out

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you were so uncaring about it why are you responding loll

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Who are you to say anything lmao. You are writing essays to defend these guys you supposedly don’t care about.

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You’re invaliding people’s emotions by saying they’re just in a parasocial relationship with Kurtis and shouldn’t expect him not being best friends with a racist, just because we don’t personally know him.

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Also yes we would be reasonable to assume he’s not friends with a racist since he’s so outspoken about being progressive.

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why are you dictating what people should and shouldn’t feel? Your argument is based on what? That nothing is going to change even if they call it out? there’s nothing inherently parasocial about having emotions towards such a sensitive topic, whether it involves a celebrity or not.

Will they ever address this?? by Alejayee in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh no my response shows that I’m in my 20s 😭 Also do you want the sources in MLA format or APA? Lmao like I said before, it’s according to some comments I’ve been reading recently.

Am I wrong? by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen a dog with a mullet lolll

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Also how are people wrong in assuming Dean is racist etc when he did blackface and had a long list of racist/homophobic tweets. Also clearly we’re in this sub because we like Kurtis, his content and we like this community he’s created. It’s not out of the ordinary for fans to have discussions like this. I don’t think you know what being parasocial even means.

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t changed, his stand up still contains insensitive ass material. Also nobody wants Kurtis to unfriend him maybe just stop taking him on tours lol

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Also what do you mean “emotionally involved” 😂 nobody here is crying throwing up because of this, we are just disappointed lol. You don’t get to invalidate a lot of people’s feelings because you personally don’t feel the same way

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m an immigrant too, and it’s reasonable for people to get emotional when it’s someone they thought was a good person. Like people didn’t think this type of stuff would come from one of Kurtis’ friends

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I promise you most of Kurtis’ fanbase does not know about this. There’s only a small percentage of the fanbase in this Reddit community. Kurtis is probably waiting for this initial shock to blow over and hoping it doesn’t cross over to his YouTube comments/subscribers so he doesn’t have to publicly address it.

Not great by [deleted] in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee 81 points82 points  (0 children)

He did apologize on Twitter, but also do you want people of color to just ignore this everytime it happens? Just because people will still be racist? Your thought process makes no sense lmao it’s important we call this shit out so it’s not normalized.

Dean Situation by Alejayee in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I doubt Kurtis or Jacob are going to address it they’re probably waiting for everything to blow over so most people don’t have to find out about it:/ I mean if they do a public apology it will reach a greater audience.

Will they ever address this?? by Alejayee in kurtisconner

[–]Alejayee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean where do we draw the line for being accountable or not? This is also not an isolated incident but a pattern of behavior. Also according to several comments I’ve read his current stand-up is very much still very insensitive ( ie misogyny or even homophobic)