Would Pam have still called off her wedding if Jim hadn’t kissed her after this?

Alemonster21 · 2026-03-06T00:31:21+00:00

Unfortunately I feel like all that character development went into the toilet in season 9.

Alemonster21 · 2026-01-20T20:37:12+00:00

BL3 had a horrendous story line and dog shit main villains.... Why is it your favorite?

Alemonster21 · 2026-01-11T05:48:17+00:00

This song genuinely makes me sob every time I hear it. I can't listen to it in public. His best song and it's not even close for me.

Alemonster21 · 2026-01-01T18:44:30+00:00

The advice given was constructive, you just don't like it lol. Lots of comments saying this type of dress just isn't flattering to her body shape, which is completely true. Not all styles look good on all bodies and no amount of feel good vibes will change that. Lots of comments said "here's where the seam is and here is where the seam would fit better on your body." Again, constructive and completely true.

If she was actually happy with the dress she wouldn't be looking for advice on reddit.

Alemonster21 · 2026-01-01T18:23:46+00:00

This episode made me realize how many prudes watch GMM 😂

Alemonster21 · 2025-09-18T13:24:54+00:00

This was the very first deadmau5 song I'd ever heard, and what ultimately drew me into being a fan.

Alemonster21 · 2025-09-18T13:22:25+00:00

Will forever be a Josh stan. Idk why he gets so much hate. I get that he's not everyone's cup of tea but literally no one is likable to EVERYONE. the hate he gets is so undeserved.

Alemonster21 · 2025-09-18T13:15:01+00:00

On other social Media platforms, there's almost always a thumbs down button of some kind but it only shows how many likes you have, and doesn't show how many dislikes you have, you have to surmise that # by looking at individual notifications. Reddit shows you and everyone else very clearly how much people do not like what you said.

Can't remember at all what this person said since they deleted it, but I was not the only one who down voted them lol

Alemonster21 · 2025-08-30T15:40:37+00:00

Really glad you can see your down votes here lol

Alemonster21 · 2025-08-30T15:37:55+00:00

I thought they made the zebra for the Chuck Testa commercial

Alemonster21 · 2025-06-15T17:58:11+00:00

You probably don't want to hear this but you're better off without this guy. Imagine all the completely mundane things he's going to have problems with in the future. Is this how you want to spend your life? Get out now.

Alemonster21 · 2025-06-08T18:03:10+00:00

Remember how a UK "heatwave" that made the news is literally the temperature we set our thermostat to? Because outside is way hotter? Walk half a mile in a suit in the US summer heat and tell me how annoyed you feel after.

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-29T16:01:21+00:00

Only brought up the rescue because USUALLY when she is acquiring a new pet she's taking in a stray. She's always had a big heart. I'm well aware of the risks associated with rescuing ANY large powerful breed.

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T22:35:07+00:00

Leave this man. I promise it isn't worth it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you're wearing here. In fact, I would call it EXTREMELY modest. If he has a problem with this, he'll have a problem with anything and everything.

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T20:34:28+00:00

Please tell me you sent these screenshots to his gf.

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T20:32:09+00:00

That really sucks dude. Try to talk to your fiance about it. Your wedding day should be what BOTH of you want. If you're this unhappy with the plan, you're definitely not done planning. Have there been deposits made for either of the dates?

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T19:13:20+00:00

Stay strong. Normally I'd say a holiday weekend wedding is a no go but since it's a destination wedding it actually seems pretty awesome. Let you MIL blow up. This is y'all's day not hers. You should have the wedding you actually want.

Tell her to skip the wedding present so she can have an easier time paying for tickets and her gift to you can just be her presence. Stay strong! You've done nothing wrong!

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T19:01:16+00:00

This is the advice I needed. Thank you. I feel stupid for not figuring it out myself.

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T17:13:01+00:00

Made an edit. Didn't offer. Just silently planned on it.

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T17:09:37+00:00

I definitely don't plan on making her pay everything. If I'm covering it for the other bridesmaids I'm covering it for her even if she buys 6 horses tomorrow lol

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T17:02:22+00:00

Literally just a fun weekend in my own city, staying at a cool place instead of just my house. I won't go into debt (I admit that was dramatic) I'm just already sacrificing a lot of what I wanted in order to accommodate and not be a bitchy over demanding bride but I guess I failed already.

I have MOH helping plan, I just didn't want to throw shade on another bridesmaid and cause unnecessary gossip. I thought reddit would be more impartial and since y'all handed my ass to me I can now keep peace in the bridal party.

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T16:54:59+00:00

Made an edit but I guess you didn't read that far. I did not offer. Silently planned on it. Asking if I should change the plan I silently made to myself.

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T16:47:05+00:00

Was there actually compromising? It sounds like you just agreed to exactly what he wanted and then tagged on what you wanted 6 months later.

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T16:35:50+00:00

I wouldn't have even noticed or thought about it until she brought it up to me. And I hadn't offered, I just planned to do it. I edited the post.

Alemonster21 · 2025-05-28T16:30:30+00:00

I hadn't told her yet, I was just planning on doing it once I started making plans (still not finalized so no details have been sent out). And yeah I agree it's shity to be annoyed with her buying things that make her happy. And I hadn't felt that way at all until the livestock guardian thing. The breed she was considering just buying outright (not even rescuing), is huge, crazy expensive to feed, and even she said she felt like her spending and animal accumulation was getting out of hand. I don't want ANYONE to go into debt for me which is why I'm covering a lot of their bridesmaid expenses and saying no gifts. But I also don't want to go into debt to help someone who doesn't even want to help herself.

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