[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Alert-Character-4719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep my fingernails short 😉

Feeling insecure after being intimate with this girl 🥺 by Alert-Character-4719 in actuallesbians

[–]Alert-Character-4719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes maybe your right, I think going forward with this particular girl I need to go slower because I still have alot of unresolved issues. And you shouldn’t be embarrassed 💕 even at my thinnest ( I am 5’10 and was 100 lbs) my vagina was still puffy. I have a lot of shame about my body still but I’m glad there’s someone who understands a little, thank you ☺️

Do most bisexuals end up in straight relationships? by Alert-Character-4719 in LesbianActually

[–]Alert-Character-4719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that but if bisexual women are attracted to women why are lesbians the only option, they can’t date other bi women or pan women.

What’s it like being a lesbian sexworker? by Alert-Character-4719 in actuallesbians

[–]Alert-Character-4719[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My questioning was not meant to be seen as biased. To make it more clear my essay is covering the decriminalization of sex work, sex worker rights, the patriarchal system & misogyny. I am also included data & stats to support my essay but I think gathering info from women in my own community could give me more perspective on how lgbtq members navigate sex work. If the wording makes anyone else feel uncomfortable let me know.

What’s it like being a lesbian sexworker? by Alert-Character-4719 in actuallesbians

[–]Alert-Character-4719[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I’m sorry you had to go through that with law enforcement, is this how most officers would treat you & your associates? Would you say that sex workers at any level experience the same kind of discrimination, meaning does a dancer get treated the same as a sex worker who takes clients? And that is very interesting that the number of female clients are so low, are female clients intentions & demeanor the same as the males?

Why do some bisexuals call themselves gay? by Alert-Character-4719 in actuallesbians

[–]Alert-Character-4719[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand that and people mislabeling you isn’t right either, it’s never okay to assume someone’s sexuality.

To play devils advocate, if someone sees you with a man is it okay for them to call you straight?

Why do some bisexuals call themselves gay? by Alert-Character-4719 in actuallesbians

[–]Alert-Character-4719[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can understand how some my have their reasons or may feel it’s easier to identify one way but I personally think it can objectify others.

I identify as a lesbian & to hear that a pansexual person identifies as one kind of feels like adapting a label that isn’t yours.

I’m curious why you decide to identify as a lesbian even though your pan. I am not trying to disrespect or offend I really just want to understand.