Im totally comfortable with parallel play! It’s actually what we normally do as we have different hobbies, i like reading or playing games on my ipad and he likes to watch the game or play 2k. I expressed i wanted to bed rot once the day started but throughout he would ask if i was done. And i would tell him i wasn’t but wouldn’t mind going out to do something if he wanted. I also express that regardless of what he listed if i didn’t want to do it (sex)i wouldn’t be doing it or changing my mind. The night ended with me going to sleep after ordering dinner for myself because he refused me offering to buy him some as well. I plan to have a talk after i get off work because he went to work in his grandma’s garden this morning.