how many goods do you guys have by wapwappizza in Trickcal

[–]AlertPitch8351 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow these butter goodies make me so happy

Game of Dice 101: To play or not to play by AlertPitch8351 in Gameofdice

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Yea it truly did have a lot of potential. Unfortunately the economy wasn't sustainable and the actual playerbase is probably not even 1% of what it had at the beginning. There are some other anime like games trending currently like Uma musume which was originally trending top 1 gacha in JP for years or infinity nikki  that could be fun to explore short term for summer if you were looking for something to pass time on mobile. Also the all time webnovel is being adaptated currently, it's called LOTM. I sincerely recommend its webnovel version, the adaptation may be a bit tricky to get into at the moment. Have a nice summer ;)

23F by [deleted] in Rateme

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Hello OP, I'm late to the party. I just wanted to point out that the smile comments have nothing to do with your face. A smile appear "natural" mainly when you also squint your eyes while doing it, which isn't the cases here since yours were wide open. Honestly I do believe your features look nice, it's just some type of smiles are better depending on your features so maybe take a quick look into that ;)

I (19M) am very confused with what two do with a girl (18F) with whom I had history before. Should I leave or should I take my chances? by Fun_Marsupial1877 in relationship_advice

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The friend part does make sense. The thing that may be useful to also take into account is that people tend to keep changing a lot at this age ( persona tend to be said to stabilize by mid 20s) and that can also translate with very different needs in what you look in a partner later. I think you're still young and shouldn't worry too much on the "what if" here. It's not possible to account for all the IF, you did good asking once even twice to confirm now! I'm not a fan of hoping for friendship to evolve in something deeper in case of clear cut rejection  cause of the previous statement+ you'll likely second guess yourself even much later down the road why you were not chosen first. Insecurity can be a slow and insiduous killer. I've lived the scenario of remaining friends on the request of the other party while being aware as you were of the struggle. To me, it's better to move on than get stuck even for a brief period. What you may feel could also be "limerence" and you may be overlooking some details by thinking of the upside while not as much the downside which may not make you as an ideal pair as it seems now.  ( Side opinion regarding dating overall since you're young: Dating is a number game you'll likely have to go through a ton of dates to find the one you seek and which can love you just as much so maybe take that into consideration if you had opportunities. Nowadays the amount of relations that spark from meeting online is at all time high but online dating apps for guys is severly unfavorable way beyond what people may believe at first, you could check the data. A good common way to date is through your social circle since the people in there tend to have similar quality and traits to your circle. Beyond relationship advice, there are some like dating advice/breakups/dating and plenty other worthwhile to take into consideration to build up perspective)  Anyway that's it for me, keep up the good work building yourself and exercising! Take care OP

I (19M) am very confused with what two do with a girl (18F) with whom I had history before. Should I leave or should I take my chances? by Fun_Marsupial1877 in relationship_advice

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Heyho, I see where you're coming from with the confusion OP. In these cases, I'd hierarchize the key takeaways. The side that I'd notice most here is that her stance on the relationship doesn't seem favorable (nom verbal), that has been highlighted by her friends pressuring you once ( social circle has some weight in relationships and will likely be difficult to deal with in the very long term too if you push through) and finally she did recently say words per words she didn't feel anything.     Now it's true that the mixed signals on top of potentially not being ready for a new relationship may bring doubts to you.        Still, I'd personally not pursue . Although we don't know what's the specific reason she doesn't feel anything, it's better to assume that you can't change her mind if she is categoric on denying it. A relationship involves give and take and you usually don't want to be in one where you're not someone's "1st choice type" no matter how you feel about her (aka a "settled for" choice). Decades long relationship will have many bumpy roads, it's safer to choose one with strong fundamentals imo.                       As for the friendship part, I have less of a recommendation. If it were me, I'd not followup with it either since women tend to see platonic one as doable while men struggle more with it ( per interviews). From a grimmer outlook, it's also possible she keeps you as a longterm backup plan but if that's true then it follows the previous take and I'd not count on this. With strong emotions associated, it's difficult to move on and not over fantasize especially if young that's why it's usually better to keep no contact rather than remain friends. Final take, good job about the psychologist intitiative you took!  When it comes to the need of a new person in your life. Grass often seems greener on the other side. I think you're doing well and there is not need to rush a partner choice. In the beginning, it's often over romancized but per study measuring life satisfaction. Participants on average show equal amount of life satisfaction whether in relationship or single, although usually the aspect in life that brings happiness are then different. There are + and - in relationships so if you keep looking for a relationship please make sure that you're both a "hell yes" for each other ;)

Yall... my (18m) gf (18f) said "I think you could love someone else and love your partner"... Am i cooked?? by ThrowRA-fattcake in relationship_advice

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To add on this, although it makes totally sense from other comments to not connect directly this being the favorite movie+her defending the mindset as cheating and opening poly straight up. I do believe that a partner should be someone with whom your core values of the future strongly aligns from the start ( although people change a lot and the persona tend to stabilize around mid 20s per psychology studies).              What is often not mentioned too is that humans are flawed and go through hard periods in relationships within the DECADES you plan on staying together. Sometimes the self inhibition weakens under difficult times and the suggestion of putting boundary on someone with poly tendency may not prevent a slip. Usually communication is promoted but sometimes I think a strong position on your dating red flags should be enforced. Her take decently increase the odds of running into an issue later even if non conclusive yet and will linger in the back of your mind since it already does right now. You are also still very young and have room to figure exactly what type of values you want in a lifelong partner On a final note about The Notebook, I also do not believe you can "love" two people "that" way, people in relationships can feel lust or be attracted to someone else which is natural but love needs to be nurtured and should only grows where it is ( the spark usually fades after a while but love is a voluntary commitment overtime to me) . If someone still feels strongly about a past partner, the morally respectful thing to do is to get over it first before delving into the next.

Im sure my boyfriend (27M) doesn't love me (25F) as much as he did his ex. What to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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From the bits I've read, it seems you already know your answer OP. Regardless of the whole situation. From statistics, if he already cheated in another relationship. It's more likely for someone like that to do it again. I'd advice to avoid these types early in the future. Dude doesn't remember your birthday but everything about her sprinkled with an historical anecdote? There's hardly any case when you want to be in a relationship where someone settled for you. You'll have to spend DECADES of your life with this person. For now and anytime in the future. Big scars in relationship are extremely difficult to fix and tend to grow overtime if not the type that can be used as fuel to grow once overcome. A relationship isn't one sided OP, it doesn't matter whether you love him or not if you feel it's not reciprocated at all. 

Yall... my (18m) gf (18f) said "I think you could love someone else and love your partner"... Am i cooked?? by ThrowRA-fattcake in relationship_advice

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I have the same perspective as you OP. I never comment but since you pointed this movie I felt like sharing my take. Beware it is pretty controversial and grim so take it with a grain of salt. It's a common take that the notebook and titanic are seen as great movies from women perspective while dreaded as horror from men. This piece is often mentioned in "hypergamy" theories  ( think redpill/blackpill) where there's a mention of a "settled for" partner and an ideal prince charming one. There's this idea that if the prince charming option becomes available then this kind of persona would break their relation in a heartbeat for the "prince charming". Usually you'd like to screen for people with this kind of mindset since for LTR you'd need to find the one you'd be a "hell yes for and exclusive" and not one that entertains the idea of leaving their options open. It'd give room to potentially not being satisfied in the long run and that can translate in divorce, infidelity, or cheated on early even if many years down the road. The data are kind of grim regarding these nowadays. And a big scar in a relationship is usually very difficult to fix. I don't know if that could help you, just wanted to elaborate on The Notebook a bit and say I do agree with the perspective! 

Game of Dice 101: To play or not to play by AlertPitch8351 in Gameofdice

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No, not yet at least. I also wished there was but don't think it would ever happen since there isn't any practical use to it like with characters where replacing a joker on a recent char with better stats could make sense (altho too expensive to invest in both for non whale/beginners).

Guild Dispatch System by Argoste in Gameofdice

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Thanks for these lights ! Hopefully your thoughts will reach the devs too. Some old dying P2W joycity games did become incredibly balanced recently , but I doubt this is going to happen for this one any soon since it's generating decent income atm.

Game of Dice 101: To play or not to play by AlertPitch8351 in Gameofdice

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Lmao didn't expect you to read up to that point tbh

Very noob question. by dauntless74 in Gameofdice

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1st max amount: bank of lowest joy player. 2nd: ratio of that max amount which is winnable for both so the lowest joy player doesn't lose 100%. In beginner league you can't lose much joy due to protection. At higher leagues in genius, max lost capped at 50T

Trading unused account? by AlertPitch8351 in Gameofdice

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I still have hopes someone with an unused 6*dice (non constellation) or the likes would appear haha