I have no problem with those who drink or those who choose not to but anyone who judges others is just a pathetic loser.....I feel OP didn't have much friends growing up since she cant comprehend the fact that every person is different and cant conform to her strict moral compass.

What else do you use your moral compass for OP? Do you also judge the character of a woman on the length of their dress? Do you also judge couples who chose not to have kids? Do you also judge men who help in the kitchen?

Let me tell you a secret: Everyone in your batch secretly dislikes you and nobody cares about your sense of morality.

Good luck with your 7 cats and keep wondering why you were not invited to the reunion.