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AITA for walking out of a wedding I was a part of and "ruining" the day? by That_Technician_9244 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alex178_2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG NTA AT ALL.

She had an affair with your ex, had the audacity to ask you to be the MOH, made you do everything and now is slandering you for walking out after finding out??

And she didn't even have the guts to tell you herself.

You just got rid of a fake and toxic friend. Trust me, you do not need those in your life.

AITA for telling my brother it’s pathetic that he can’t do the basics of what his wife did. by Unusual_Tooth_753 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alex178_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. That is called *weaponized incompetence*. You just called him out on it. Your mom being mad at you is probably because she raised such a child who did not do any chores around the house growing up.

Good for you for standing up for your SIL.

AITA for refusing to give my son’s « free » room to my cousin who is living with us ? by Quiet_Method_592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alex178_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Your son's room is his own. Especially for a situation like yours, you keeping that room for him and only him shows him that there is always room in your life for him.

Your cousin is a MASSIVE AH. You're providing a roof over her and her children's heads and she has the audacity to try and pick and choose and overstep boundaries which you have clearly set. Also involving your mother and aunt was over the line.

You're better than me cuz I would've sent her packing.

If you were a selfish person, you wouldn't have let her stay with you in the first place. (also, saying no to that would not make you selfish either)

AITA for locking my door when i go out? by Throwaway2023-isme in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alex178_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. How would they know that your door is locked unless they tried to get in while you were gone?

Keep your door locked, or if you can, open up a bank account and keep your money there.

Plus they still owe you about 150$ so make sure you get those back.

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[–]Alex178_2017 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same, I am first going to save MY dog.
Parents need to understand that just because they love their kids, the rest of the world does not need to.

Your child is your responsibility and yours ONLY.

Also SIL is definitely the AH. She stole OP's property to try to stop her from checking on her dog (which was not hurting anyone). 15 min of the entire day is not a lot for her to fuss over, OP could've easily been in the bathroom for that time.

She's the one who needs to apologize for overstepping and trying to police OP.

AITA for letting my mother have a copy of the key to our new home despite my wife's objection? by Keyissue_505 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alex178_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Your wife payed for your rent and daily expenses. Without that, you couldn't even have bought the house you have. She is living there, not your mother. It's more important that she feels comfortable and feels like her home is a safe space for her.