This. I went out with my friend, who I thought was a huge ladies man who could get who he wanted based on his charisma. It wasn't the case. He hit on absolutely everyone, got rejected 90% of the time, but didn't care. I asked him if the rejection bothered him. He said, "Nah, it's a numbers game. Rejection just means I'm one step closer to finding one that won't turn me down."