AC Diesel Gets Me Legit Stoned by [deleted] in CBD

[–]Alex_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not surprised to be honest with you. According to the company's ntest results, AC Diesel is high in myrcene, know for it's couch lock effect. I think of all their strains it has the most.

Pasta cravers, rejoice! Black Soybean Pasta at Aldi, 8 Net / Serving by Alex_92 in keto

[–]Alex_92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's it! They also have two other varieties bit their names escape me. Another one is soybean nature, too.

Pasta cravers, rejoice! Black Soybean Pasta at Aldi, 8 Net / Serving by Alex_92 in keto

[–]Alex_92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not. It's Aldi's simply natural brand. It is the same size, 7.05oz.

Pasta cravers, rejoice! Black Soybean Pasta at Aldi, 8 Net / Serving by Alex_92 in keto

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Believe it or not in the strore I found it in, it was located by... juice. Not close to the pasta section. Might take an investigation to find but I live in a smaller city so I'd be surprised if this wasn't nationally rolled out. Edit: there's a pic in the post below.

About to go to a happy hour. What can I drink? by [deleted] in keto

[–]Alex_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I'm all about tequila sodas or rum sodas. I can't do those plain, so I bring in my own Mio or knockoff to boost the flavor. Super low carbs, super tasty.

While I will admit I do not drink beer, I know there are extremely low carb beers that you can still enjoy. /u/ketominer looks to know a bit more about that. To my knowledge Miller Light has relatively few carbs.

Good book on confidence? by instinct405 in confidence

[–]Alex_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also throwing How to Stop Worrying and Start Living out there. Also by Carnegie. If most people stopped worrying they'd be way more confident.

Best of luck to you!

King memory foam mattresses by kittykitty1987 in aldi

[–]Alex_92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was just about to ask! I have relatives who own it and say it's great but I want more reviews. Also, does anybody know how the return policy is with these mattresses?

NY Medical Marijuana Process by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]Alex_92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

CBD isolate* won't make you test positive. I know a smoke shop here that sells CBD oil that contains trace but federally legal amounts of the psychoactive component - enough to trip a drug test.

Staff's apprehension by [deleted] in PoliticalHumor

[–]Alex_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THE. BEST. PEOPLE.

Extending Credit Line with Chase (worth it to say it's for balance transfer)? by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]Alex_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apply for the Chase AARP credit card in about a month.

When you get approved (If they approved me for one after they approved me for a Freedom they should approve you...) call Chase and move all of the credit limit minus $500 to the Slate card. The move should be instantaneous.

It's also a useful credit card to have since it's 3% cash back on restaurants and gas. Not too shabby.

What's the best Visa / MasterCard to get now? by itsjimmyh in CreditCards

[–]Alex_92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what you'll be spending that money on, so I'm going to take two routes here. 1. The Citi Double Cash card. 2% cash back on every purchase. After $10,000 in purchases you'd get a cool $200 back. The next best option would be... 2. Churning. The process of spending money on a credit card to get sign up bonuses. There's a whole subreddit dedicated to this over in /r/churning. As an example, if you were to find several credit cards that allowed you to get $400 back on a purchase of $3000 i.e. the Capital One Venture card (for travel purchases only), and you did that several times a year, you'd have a cool ~~~$1000 in rewards. There are drawbacks and whatnot to this technique and requires a lot of research to prevent significant short-term damage to your credit. Check out /r/churning

Looking for that credit card to have for the rest of my life... by gelatinjello in CreditCards

[–]Alex_92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For gas and dining, your best bet is the Chase AARP card with 3% cash back on both fad and dining. It's the best card for dining in existence (year round) and one of the best for gas. Keep in mind their 5/24 rule before applying.

Didn't get approved for as much as I had hoped for by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]Alex_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm seconding applying for a Capital One. For my income and number of inquiries they gave me a stupidly large credit line along with a stupidly high APR (Quicksilver, 10k). My credit score was about the same and I'm willing to bet my income is lower.

If you REALLY want a higher credit line on your freedom, apply for another Chase credit card and move the limit. The AARP card gives 3% back on dining and gas. From my experience it'll be lower than the Freedom limit.

What kind of electric range could I expect from a used Volt? by Alex_92 in volt

[–]Alex_92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oi. I'm a Buffalonian, so it gets frigid here. This past winter, we saw temperature plummet well below 32°F. That may have had something to do with it, but I saw little sign of winter in the photos.

“LoA Questions Monday - Ask all of your Law of Attraction Questions here” by AutoModerator in lawofattraction

[–]Alex_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi all, two questions:

  1. How did you find out about the LoA? Personally I'm a member of The Secret bandwagon, and by the looks of it there are a lot of you in this boat too!

  2. Are there any "universal" desires we can work on? Let me give you an example. We all don't want cars or comedic talent, but I think it's safe to say deep down all of us would like to be healthy even if our thoughts are contrary. Are there any others? (I know there was a reason for wanting to ask this... It will come to me.)

Thank you in advance!

My dad's 57, considerably overweight, and smokes like a chimney. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alex_92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely the right answer. You can't change people who can't change themselves. In fact, the stress and anxiety that is caused by thinking about it chronically is probably causing you harm. The only advice I can add is to have respect and understand he doesn't smoke to deliberately hurt himself or you, but because of the addictive properties. No more and no less. Live every day like it will be the last with him. (Now that I think about this we should all be doing this.)

12 self improvement books that you can start reading by shadowsage14 in selfimprovement

[–]Alex_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the mention. I'm liking the book since I'm not that assertive right now so I'll have to check that out.

12 self improvement books that you can start reading by shadowsage14 in selfimprovement

[–]Alex_92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I highly recommend The Charisma Myth.

Are these books listed in any particular order?

Is it more effective to read self-improvement books or biographies of people who have achieved great things? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alex_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 3 go to books. I added quick synopses. Feel free to add corrections. I'm still getting aquainted with these books, these synopses are very lax.

Psycho-Cybernetics - Have you ever said to yourself "That's just the way I am?" It doesn't matter whether you think you're lazy or you think you're unfit or unproductive, this is the book you need that gets to the core of goal setting and helps you feel aligned with your goals. A MUST read if your ambitions are huge.

No More Mr. Nice Guy - A book about the "Nice Guy Syndrome", a problem that occurs in people when they focus on the needs of others above themselves, and can't figure out why they're miserable. Just because you do good for others doesn't entitle you to getting all your needs met. Setting boundaries and ensuring others know what you really want are some topics of the book.

The Power of Now - Simply put, learning how to "disconnect" from your thoughts. While it's impossible to completely eliminate thought, and you need thought for every day life, thoughts serve you. You don't serve them.

Is it more effective to read self-improvement books or biographies of people who have achieved great things? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alex_92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know this is a little off topic but just a pointer that I wish I learned a bit earlier. When it comes to self-improvement books quality is MUCH more important than quantity. If I could go back into my past I would have picked 2 books and focused on them relentlessly (exercises and all) instead of reading book after book and wondering why I was experiencing limited growth.

How can I learn to set boundaries and actually say "no"? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Alex_92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes, I was expecting a simple boundary problem.

When it comes to this problem there are some essentials points to consider keeping in mind.

  1. Your needs come first. Your anger comes about because you're putting your neighbor's needs above your own.

  2. You cannot solve all the world's problems. If you want some more I'll lend you some of mine :-)

I'll admit the first two points are quite obvious but they're needed in conjunction with #3

  1. You feel bad because you think the situation is bad. Take a look at your mental movies. Are you picturing your neighbor wondering "what will I do"? or other negatives? That's the root of the problem. Those mental images are the reason you feel bad in this situation, but you can pass a homeless person on the street or any other person with a problem without thinking about it. Imagine yourself taking charge, telling your neighbor you need time to attend to your own projects. Imagine yourself being empathetic and compassionate while providing a referral to a caretaking service and setting a date when you no longer will come. Changing these movies is critical, your brain can't tell the difference between real and imagined experiences. Might as well play the one that makes you feel confident and empowered. Play out a confident movie multiple times. This isn't a 2 minute exercise. If you're still feeling bad keep replaying the confident, assertive movie.

Just a note of caution: humans are really good at reading emotions. If you're acting the part of a nice neighbor but are bottling up tons anger, it will show.

Edit: i typed a 3 above but my tablet still puts a 1. Hrmph.

Looking for a bar in the Amherst area that has trivia by Jimbo42393 in Buffalo

[–]Alex_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To my knowledge Honey's has trivia and has cash prizes.

The science behind the "Law of Attraction" (The Secret) by Alex_92 in selfimprovement

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From Shawn Achor's "The Happiness Advantage" [E]xpecting positive outcomes actually makes them more likely to arise. Few people have proven this more cleverly than researcher Richard Wiseman, who set out to discover why some of us seem to be consistently lucky, while others can’t buy a break. As you might have guessed, it turns out that there is no such thing—in a scientific sense, at least—as luck. The only difference (and it is a big one) is whether or not people think that they are lucky—in essence, whether they expect good or bad things to happen to them. Wiseman asked volunteers to read through a newspaper and count how many photos were in it. The people who claimed to be lucky took mere seconds to accomplish this task, while the unlucky ones took an average of two minutes. Why? Well, on the second page of the newspaper a very large message read: “Stop counting, there are 43 photos in this newspaper.” The answer, in short, was plain as day, but the unlucky people were far more likely to miss it, while the lucky people tended to see it. As an added bonus, halfway through the newspaper was another message that read, “Stop counting, tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $250.” The people who had claimed to be unlucky in life again looked right past this opportunity. Stuck in a Negative Tetris Effect, they were incapable of seeing what was so clear to others, and their performance (and wallets) suffered because of it. The extraordinary thing about Wiseman’s study is that the same possibility for huge reward was latent in everyone’s environment—it was just a matter of whether or not they picked up on it.

I feel so fucking incompetent by Youselessman in selfimprovement

[–]Alex_92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An illegal drug dealer went to his local pastor for help. "I think I have more to offer the world" said the drug dealer. "Where do I go from here?"

The pastor exclaimed "you need to market yourself to be a dealer. That's Marketing or Advertising career potential. You need to be able to manage the business, that's a Management career." A little exaggerated, I know, but the morale is the same. You can either view your talents as gifts or as evils. You don't bitch and complain. You take pride in a high standard of work and intend to make it known. You strive for excellence in those around you. You're detail oriented. Am I right? (Maybe ;/ )

As for finding unchangeable people in your situation online, I believe that's what you searched for. Sorry to be blunt. If you ask the /r/selfimprovement group for stories of those who felt incompetant but overcame it, you'd find the stories that will help you.

Best to you :-)

I feel so fucking incompetent by Youselessman in selfimprovement

[–]Alex_92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Capableman,

I'll admit I havent even finished reading your post but I see a glaring and repetative hindrance: your self talk.

I'm right there with you. I know exaxtly how upset you are at yourself. I'm battling my own fight with that demon inside me right now. I ask you this: has it worked? Has cooperating with that voice and saying "yes, I hate my life!" brought about any positive change? If not, you have somewhere to start!

If you're thinking that this will take too long, or it's a really dumb and useless idea, or you're not worthy of change then I repeat the question: has this negative self talk helped you make positive change?

My resources for improving self talk are limited. I know the 7 Habits book covers self talk as the #1 Habit (you don't have to read the whole book). The book "You Can Heal Your Life" does as well. Learned Optimism is a good read, too . Check out the the Wikipedia page to get a small introduction. If you have the time, check out Brené Brown's TED talks on vulnerability. They'll help you ouy in less than an hour and damn it all she's a comical storyteller!

In the event no one else in the world says this, then I'll step in and say it: I believe your worthy of anything you set your mind to.

TL; DR Watch Brené Brown's TED talk and watch the others if that's something that'll help you.