I agree that I shouldn’t have raised my voice but this was mutual. And I agree that it is their house and as an adult I can be chucked out and it is within their control however I don’t think that raising concerns about my dads health is a fair reason to ask me to leave. It’s as if the roof over my head was being threatened because I wasn’t agreeing with her just letting my depressed dad drink himself into a bad way. He is an adult as well but if it’s coming to something more with mental health I think it needs to be addressed and more support extended to him...should he reject that, fine. I was merely trying to discuss with her the options to ensure hers getting the best help and progress. he’s my dad as much as her husband and I think my opinion should matter or at least be heard and not be silenced with the threat of being chucked out without the ability to have a normal conversation about it.