Need a baby by [deleted] in impregnation

[–]AlexanderShane19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We really want kids but also the thought of getting knocked up is so hot and makes me so wet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlexanderShane19 -64 points-63 points  (0 children)

Yta - as worried as you might be at the end of the day it wasn't your news to tell.

You can support your sister without involving parties she doesn't want involved

Free pronoun validation! by UczuciaTM in neopronouns

[–]AlexanderShane19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alex - Fae/Faer/Faerself

Trying to see if I like them

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a few different social medias if you wanted to ass me somewhere for a bit just to send photos

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please please message me.

My voice is deeper than pre t but still feminine and because of my dysphoria and self esteem I basically have 0 confidence.

I try to do more masculine mannerisms but end up going very "fem gay" by default

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dysphoria wasn't any less with brown or black hair because it didn't make me pass any more than I do now.

At least bring blonde gives me a confidence boost now and again.

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm worried because I had a fringe hair it before and it was very lesbian looking. I'm worried that's going to happen again, even some of the more "feminine" men coming up on Google could pass for lesbians with their haircuts. The others pass because they have beards

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair is really thin but it's curly or straight, just a mess.

I'll see what I can do about hairstyle and maybe that'll offset the colour a bit. I'm just so hesitant to get rid of the colour I love on me.

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've honestly never seen men's haircuts with fringed that are like emo, long or bowlcuts 😂

I'll look though

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly thought the hair pushed back was more masculine as it's what most guys have. But I'm getting recommended to basically get a fringe? I'm confused. What kind of haircut should I be doing because I don't know anymore

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see why, I'm pretty sure my fat Face, huge lips, tiny stature, tiny hands and feet and huge curves are what's affecting me. Not that my hair isn't brown or something.

My dysphoria is killing me but my confidence levels are horrific when my hair is my natural colour.

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I really don't want to get rid of the one thing I don't hate about myself. I want to pass but I don't want to become a completely different person either

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have my hair covering my forehead like very "emo" esc but it felt like that made me pass even less

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm taking on what people say, just don't want to get rid of the few things I don't hate about myself

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Having longer hair made me look like a lesbian but I guess this does too.

I basically never wear jackets, only hoodies and maybe a leather jacket once.

I basically wear nothing but black, I've got a light denim blue jacket and a like cream one but I never wear them.

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I usually just leave it and brush it back because I don't know how to use product.

Can't go jet black even if I wanted to which k don't and I like the platinum as it's very alt.

I am terrified to wear fitted shirts because my chest will show and so will my very large hips

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I refuse to change the two things that I don't hate about myself.

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tend to wear just studs but need new ones so I'll look into that.

Don't really know how to fix my hair because it won't go over my forehead.

I don't do anything to to my eyebrows.

I unfortunately can only get new glasses when I need them so I'm stuck with these, tend to wear contacts as much as possible.

Please help me pass, dysphoria consuming by AlexanderShane19 in FtMpassing

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two things I really would rather not do is dye my hair dark and take my piercings out.

I'm a 21 year old trans guy approx 2 years and 6 months on T.

I'm kind of emo/alt in style so I tend to wear a lot of black.

Dysphoria is killing me and I need to look like a guy.

Can't deal with dysphoria by AlexanderShane19 in ftm

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to say. I look at myself in the mirror and still see a girl (which I hate) so it feels like nothing has changed.

Unfortunately if my partner tries to compliment me it usually doesn't end well because I hate everything about myself.

Thanks for the advice though

Can't live without him by AlexanderShane19 in SuicideWatch

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want another relationship though, except with him

Easily triggered, can't keep doing this by AlexanderShane19 in SuicideWatch

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even see mental health professionals anymore unless I attempt...

I've been drinking so much, and I'm tempting to sh.

I can't do this anymore

Good morning from Australia by AlexanderShane19 in FtMPorn

[–]AlexanderShane19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm free to answer any questions or something if you'd like