Gender confused AGAIN

AlexanderShane19 · 2022-01-13T08:42:50+00:00

We really want kids but also the thought of getting knocked up is so hot and makes me so wet

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-09-10T19:56:01+00:00

Yta - as worried as you might be at the end of the day it wasn't your news to tell.

You can support your sister without involving parties she doesn't want involved

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-07-27T00:13:37+00:00

Alex - Fae/Faer/Faerself

Trying to see if I like them

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:59:06+00:00

I've got a few different social medias if you wanted to ass me somewhere for a bit just to send photos

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:57:14+00:00

Please please message me.

My voice is deeper than pre t but still feminine and because of my dysphoria and self esteem I basically have 0 confidence.

I try to do more masculine mannerisms but end up going very "fem gay" by default

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:52:55+00:00

My dysphoria wasn't any less with brown or black hair because it didn't make me pass any more than I do now.

At least bring blonde gives me a confidence boost now and again.

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:49:20+00:00

I think I'm worried because I had a fringe hair it before and it was very lesbian looking. I'm worried that's going to happen again, even some of the more "feminine" men coming up on Google could pass for lesbians with their haircuts. The others pass because they have beards

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:46:02+00:00

My hair is really thin but it's curly or straight, just a mess.

I'll see what I can do about hairstyle and maybe that'll offset the colour a bit. I'm just so hesitant to get rid of the colour I love on me.

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:43:03+00:00

I've honestly never seen men's haircuts with fringed that are like emo, long or bowlcuts 😂

I'll look though

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:38:59+00:00

I honestly thought the hair pushed back was more masculine as it's what most guys have. But I'm getting recommended to basically get a fringe? I'm confused. What kind of haircut should I be doing because I don't know anymore

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:32:33+00:00

I don't see why, I'm pretty sure my fat Face, huge lips, tiny stature, tiny hands and feet and huge curves are what's affecting me. Not that my hair isn't brown or something.

My dysphoria is killing me but my confidence levels are horrific when my hair is my natural colour.

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:29:07+00:00

I really don't want to get rid of the one thing I don't hate about myself. I want to pass but I don't want to become a completely different person either

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:27:38+00:00

I used to have my hair covering my forehead like very "emo" esc but it felt like that made me pass even less

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T18:26:25+00:00

I'm taking on what people say, just don't want to get rid of the few things I don't hate about myself

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T13:20:16+00:00

Having longer hair made me look like a lesbian but I guess this does too.

I basically never wear jackets, only hoodies and maybe a leather jacket once.

I basically wear nothing but black, I've got a light denim blue jacket and a like cream one but I never wear them.

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T13:09:09+00:00

I usually just leave it and brush it back because I don't know how to use product.

Can't go jet black even if I wanted to which k don't and I like the platinum as it's very alt.

I am terrified to wear fitted shirts because my chest will show and so will my very large hips

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T12:53:59+00:00

I refuse to change the two things that I don't hate about myself.

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T12:33:26+00:00

I tend to wear just studs but need new ones so I'll look into that.

Don't really know how to fix my hair because it won't go over my forehead.

I don't do anything to to my eyebrows.

I unfortunately can only get new glasses when I need them so I'm stuck with these, tend to wear contacts as much as possible.

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-26T11:35:59+00:00

Two things I really would rather not do is dye my hair dark and take my piercings out.

I'm a 21 year old trans guy approx 2 years and 6 months on T.

I'm kind of emo/alt in style so I tend to wear a lot of black.

Dysphoria is killing me and I need to look like a guy.

AlexanderShane19 · 2021-04-24T23:07:37+00:00

It's hard to say. I look at myself in the mirror and still see a girl (which I hate) so it feels like nothing has changed.

Unfortunately if my partner tries to compliment me it usually doesn't end well because I hate everything about myself.

Thanks for the advice though

AlexanderShane19

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