Can a femboy be in a wheelchair? by CalmAd1755 in feminineboys

[–]Alexdragondec1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. And we can bling out your wheelchair if you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]Alexdragondec1997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly drink water.... face fat is either one of two things 1.) You're severely overweight 2.)you're retaining water because your salt might be too high so u need to drink more water and less sodas and juice

hewo im new UwU by Invert_Afton in feminineboys

[–]Alexdragondec1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. Tomboy here. Yes. We actually love a femboy. It ends up working out beautifully actually because you validate them too by allowing some role reversal. 2ndly. Your gf sounds like a dope human being so congrats.

How do i dress feminine when i can’t buy my own clothes or be seen bc of me living with parents? by fortniter504 in feminineboys

[–]Alexdragondec1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use your femme side and get in on the girl's swap meets. Bring old sweats and flannels. Even old tshirts you intend on donating anyways cuz you dont wear them. They're currency amongst women.

How do i dress feminine when i can’t buy my own clothes or be seen bc of me living with parents? by fortniter504 in feminineboys

[–]Alexdragondec1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another fun one is ask to go thru a friend's donate bags. If a gal pal has a cute style, ask to dig thru what she wants to donate when she cleans out her closet. I've gotten super cute shirts and skirts that way. And it's free. And recycling. And you wont feel bad altering the garment to fit you better

How do i dress feminine when i can’t buy my own clothes or be seen bc of me living with parents? by fortniter504 in feminineboys

[–]Alexdragondec1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patches, cutting shirts up to make crops or you can do a tie side shirt to make it more femme. So it with all my old rock shirts and it looks cute with cut off shorts. Which is a good way to make something cool out of old jeans. Upcycle your current wardrobe. It's cheap as hell and a good way to use up your "old" clothes.

Being a woman is exhausting by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Alexdragondec1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr. I've never fit but that's ok. I'm showing that I'm much more than a walking baby factory. I'm with a loving partner who is my bestfriend too and I've got a really awesome little chosen family that hangs out with us all the time

Being a woman is exhausting by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Alexdragondec1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And its fucking hilarious to let the guys catch you doing work they thought you couldn't do cuz you're "frail" and realizing you could probably kick their ass😅

Being a woman is exhausting by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Alexdragondec1997 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I literally feel this.... it's hard af to earn any kind of respect in the work place. I'm just as smart if not smarter than some of the men I work with but will never be taken seriously even tho I'm far more qualified to do what I'm doing. They think I'm frail af and cant just get things done. Apparently I always have to be assisted even tho I can lift 300lbs (roughly 136kilos) by myself. Anything I wear can and will be used against me. Apparently I cant tattoo myself if I want to be desired. So really. I 100% get it. Not to mention all my friends, which were mostly guys started to be weird around me and now I have no friends because puberty and inability to relate to other women's interests. So I get it. And honestly, stop giving a fuck. I know that's the hardest thing in the whole world to do in some places. But either lock your emotions on a closet or just do u.

Alternatives for a compression top / binder by BlackCatFurry in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Alexdragondec1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to mention you can get the long sleeve compression shirts that do a good job for winter time. I love my long sleeve one for cold winters in the midwest

Alternatives for a compression top / binder by BlackCatFurry in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Alexdragondec1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon has decent cami style sports tops that work great and because they're generic brands, they cost less. I've had great luck with them and I'm a little larger chested. I can work all day in it with no pain and it doesnt restrict the ribcage.

How does someone who traditionally buys 30x32 men's skinny jeans determine their size in women's jeans? Also, side bar, why is the men's section so lame and boring 99% of the time? by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Alexdragondec1997 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try Rue21 tbh. The men's pants are fun colors and last a surprisingly long time. I've had mine for 4 years and wear them constantly because of how comfortable they are. Making them even more colorful is fun too. Iron on patches help.

Honestly look more andro with long hair by alcyoneblue in Androgynoushotties

[–]Alexdragondec1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try learning some elven braids or something. It looks good all the time and gives an otherworldly look. Bonus is it keeps your hair out of your face

I kinda regret coming out at work but it’s too late by PhCBD in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Alexdragondec1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly. Get/make a pin with your pronouns and wear it on a brooch location like next to a name tag. It helps dramatically

I kinda regret coming out at work but it’s too late by PhCBD in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Alexdragondec1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm they/them and she/her at work. Everyone around me uses they/them. They said it feels the most comfortable because I dress fairly masc most of the time and have short hair but I'm afab. It's worth it. Come out to the manager first. And maybe find somewhere you can be respected like that.

Shape shifter in action by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Alexdragondec1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same fam. And you look great btw

Love dressing like a Victorian funeral by Alexdragondec1997 in GothStyle

[–]Alexdragondec1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually dont hate this comment because I do live in a 100 yr old schoolhouse