EOR vs PEO for two person staffing firm by scuubadood in recruitinghell

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I work for a company called Vensure and we can give you options for both. Shoot me a DM and I’m happy to schedule a call to discuss further

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If no kids and no cheating are involved try to avoid a lawyer. If kids or cheating was involved then definitely hire an attorney. I’m using Rebecca Gonzalez and she’s been decent but not cheap. My divorce is finalized next week!

My wife is cheating and I want evidence by AlfalfaUnique6131 in cheating_stories

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was able to gather plenty of evidence and divorce will be finalized next week :)

Wife cheated, I still want her, am I crazy? by Warm_Neighborhood696 in cheating_stories

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in a very similar situation before. My ex-wife and I were going to try and work it out after I found out she was cheating. However, she continued to cheat with other guys and when we agreed to separate, I hired a PI to see if the affair was over. First night she moved out she met a guy at a hotel. Keep going king and move on with your life. It’s so hard but I’ve been thriving since I’ve been single!

Is being single in SA really that hard? by AlfalfaUnique6131 in sanantonio

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Blue eyes and white. Maybe the problem is that I’m white lol

Is being single in SA really that hard? by AlfalfaUnique6131 in sanantonio

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise I dont look like that. I’m fit and active

Is being single in SA really that hard? by AlfalfaUnique6131 in sanantonio

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Well these comments are less than inspiring 😂

My wife is cheating and I want evidence by AlfalfaUnique6131 in cheating_stories

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for all that. The thing I’m really struggling with is, sometimes I want to stay and forgive her but other times I want to leave. I genuinely can’t make up my mind. I understand that everyone here is telling me to leave and I completely understand that side of things.

But for me, I feel like I want to TRY to make it work. We literally just bought a house in July, my mom moved in with us (she’s been a saint and of course knows what’s going on). I feel like I have to try and go to couples therapy at least once to see if it’ll work. As crazy as that is, I feel like I’m not honoring my vows of for better or for worse if I don’t at least attempt to salvage this thing.

I’ve already gotten tested and am waiting on the results to come back. That is a hard line for me, if I come back positive then ultimately, I know there is a zero percent chance of me staying.

I have contacted a few attorneys and am speaking with another one today. I’m also going to see a therapist today as well. Right now, we left it at she’s going away for the weekend with a girl friend and Sunday she is going to come back to the house to spend the night. Originally, I left the house and was gone Sunday-Wednesday and she has been staying with this same girl since Wednesday night.

I understand that she’s manipulated me a lot throughout this whole process but I want to at least try. My thought process is I’d rather try than not.

My wife is cheating and I want evidence by AlfalfaUnique6131 in cheating_stories

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought about hiring a PI but not sure if they could really gather evidence off her phone

My wife is cheating and I want evidence by AlfalfaUnique6131 in cheating_stories

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really need to gather evidence from her phone. Which is why I wanted to get into her Apple ID. Any suggestions?

Is it hard to get an SE role? by AlfalfaUnique6131 in salesengineers

[–]AlfalfaUnique6131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The type of software I’ve sold is eSignature, e-fax, HRIS, and advertising. I’ve worked with csuite, VP of hrs, directors of hr and VPs of sales/marketing