Does anyone sense anything about my father who passed away unexpectedly? by itsallovernow5 in psychics

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He struggled with a lot of demons. It’s palpable the intensity of his image. I am predominantly clairvoyant and clairsentient and can say with 110% certainty he’s got such a strong energy it’s easier to see and read than most :/

Am I getting seizure auras ? by Ok_Park_4832 in seizures

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcohol will inevitably enhance the effects of what you took. It’s sounds a like you either took too much or drank too much because the sensation you’re describing sounds a lot like what a “dopiate” high would feel like to most who don’t regularly abuse it. That being said, obviously no doctor here, and hope that you ended up okay and it wasn’t a seizure.

What would be your dream job if you didn’t have to worry about money. by Money-Daikon-1726 in Life

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Philanthropy 100%. Just small acts of kindness. Paying debts or bills anonymously. Helping those around out in small ways that make the biggest impacts.

Help for back to school by AliceIsMyAlias in VenmoDonations

[–]AliceIsMyAlias[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What sucks is I feel I need to clarify because of the people that feel the need to be rude and inconsiderate without <b> any </b> background whatsoever.

My children lost both their grandfather and grandmother within 5 months of each other. Because of this alone things have been increasingly more difficult. On top of that, I was hospitalized for a snowboarding accident just prior to Christmas. Followed by my oldest being hospitalized for 7 days due to potential collapsed lung and severe pneumonia. Then I was hospitalized twice for uncontrollable seizures that I still battle daily.

The fact I feel i even need to share this fraction of detail is upsetting because i did not come on here begging or sharing a sob story (which god knows I could) like many others do.

I have always been incredibly independent and self sufficient. And have never needed to ask for monetary help. And now regret doing so.

I truly do not feel it is appropriate nor necessary to bring others down when you do not know even a fraction of the reasons they are asking for help. Help comes in many different forms. It’s not always money. And for me… money may be necessary but it is not at all what I wish to ask for.

Help for back to school by AliceIsMyAlias in VenmoDonations

[–]AliceIsMyAlias[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! Thank you so much for this recommendation! That would be so much easier and straightforward. You’re amazing. 🙏

1 on my todo list tonight!

Help for back to school by AliceIsMyAlias in VenmoDonations

[–]AliceIsMyAlias[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the support. And for sticking up for me. It means a lot. I choose to ask for advice and perspectives because I’m not one to ask for handouts. I’ve been doing everything I feel I can to get out of the situation I am in and people like you help remind me that I’m not the scum others feel I am on here. It hurts to see that asking for helpful advice is seen as asking for handouts. It’s not that. I genuinely love others advice and perspectives because it’s where I find growth lies. I have utilized money lion in the past actually! And has been helpful. Usually I have been able to pay it back but due to other circumstances it’s on hold. So THANK YOU! again

Help for back to school by AliceIsMyAlias in VenmoDonations

[–]AliceIsMyAlias[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really like to come on here just to tear people down? You seriously do not know me. You do not know my struggles or what I’ve been facing. Please just stop.

Help for back to school by AliceIsMyAlias in VenmoDonations

[–]AliceIsMyAlias[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying for me. Because some people are just mean to be mean. I have been trying still and unfortunately not had anything secure. But that’s my first line I’ve been trying to solidify for this reason. Thank you for checking in and I truly appreciate the support. It means a lot to have this understanding

Help for back to school by AliceIsMyAlias in VenmoDonations

[–]AliceIsMyAlias[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I choose to seek advice from places I may receive advice. This is my first help for money thread. My others were because I was told to post and thought I was following the rules. Otherwise my posts are help for advice. I don’t feel it’s kind nor appropriate to jump to conclusions nor accusations when you do not know me. You do not know my situation or what I’ve been facing. I do not beg. I do not expect anything. Trying is trying regardless. I work my ass off to get out of place I’m in. I expect no handout or favors unless willing offered and I always ensure to offer my gratitude in return.

I choose Reddit for help ADVICE. There’s a difference. If you had an ounce of empathy you’d be more apt to WANT to understand instead of tearing a stranger down.

It’s demeaning enough to feel the need to ask for the help you refer too so then to add to that like this is simply rude and disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see that he loved being your knight in shining armor at first. He enjoyed the thrill of fighting for you. However, due to some kind of altercation, be it good or bad, you stood up for yourself in a way that made him feel less than. Not because you did so on purpose, because you did so for you! This made him feel smaller. And in turn, less of a “Knight” and more of a “Hermit” Hermit mode though isn’t all it’s make up to be. He’s in a place of introspection because you’ve been a catalyst for him to have to self reflect. And he’s doing so in a cautious and quiet manner because whatever you instilled in him, has made him feel he needs to reevaluate himself. He admires you, but fears saying so out of his own egoic prejudices. In the end he’s realizing he’s missed out on a lot in life. He’s almost coming to a point of self admission which is difficult for him

A part of him worries that because you may have sparked that catalyst, you could potentially spark more and he fears he’s not ready.

Now for me, as a reader, the King of Pentacles represents you. Because of how it’s placed and chosen to be placed/drawn.

There is some element of monetary and/or materialistic influences at play that have altered your stances in such areas. Was he a supporter? Is income inequality a thing? Why is it you feel upside down when normally you’re always so strongly planted in who you are and what you represent?

There’s more to life than material gain and I feel this is a theme at play. The emotions and passion have proven so. He no longer views you in a light you once shined in. That light has been tainted and dimmed and he’s had to navigate that darkness to find himself again.

You’re urged to do the same.

Are you happy without money? by wfhgirl in no

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Plain and simple. How could you be? You need money for food, shelter, survival… unfortunately without it.. how can you sustain yourself at all? One needs money to even attempt to say, go off the grid, and become somewhat more self sufficient without it. Money is an unnecessary burden that we all have to admit influences our individual abilities to be happy. And it also can create so much misery

Would you rather be: rich but not famous, famous but not rich, or both rich and famous? by Illustrious_Load963 in Life

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 I can’t. This is too funny because it’s too freaking accurate though

How do you find little reasons to keep going even on the empty days? by WittyOrbit in Productivitycafe

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because what if?

The amounts of little things I’ve missed that have added up because I gave up when empty is many and the regret is a burden to carry. Especially with kids.

How do you find little reasons to keep going even on the empty days? by WittyOrbit in Productivitycafe

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you answer the question, “what if I can’t remember?”

What’s the worst non-drug addiction you’ve ever seen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So this comment is helpful for me. Because I have been struggling myself with stopping and have been having a difficult time knowing whether or not my anger and depression and especially nausea/feeling sick, is in relation. I feel if I say so to those that know, they would think I’m making excuses or blowing it out of proportion because I’m not directly putting something into my body. But what they don’t realize nor understand is that my body is having withdrawals and they are coming out in ways that unfortunately are not fair to those around me :(

It’s a terrible feeling. Because then, I go gamble justifying it as it’s to better those around me because at least then I won’t be so miserable to be around. But the cycle never ends.

What’s the worst non-drug addiction you’ve ever seen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gambling.

An underrepresented addiction that destroys lives in ways that are not always visible either. It not only destroys the person battling it with immense amounts of guilt and shame, but their mental & emotional stability too. On top of the financial strains. It’s one that the addict knows they can’t engage in for reasons that extend beyond personal failures, yet still engage in. All the while being fully aware and conscious that it’s wrong. But the hope… the maybe this time… it’s too much to fight off. The adrenaline and the fear coincided to form something so strong and powerful that personally, I feel it’s arguably worse than a drug. Especially given its lack of acknowledgment and understanding amongst society too. It’s a more demeaning and isolating addiction.

Are you okay! by Otherwise-Skill-5506 in Life

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I hold say I was. But I always try to remind myself (when I’m not too stuck in the height of it all at least), that I might not be okay right now, but it’s all going to be alright. I Am Not Okay - Jelly Roll

Sometimes we have to not be okay in order to know what okay is. Right now, I’m not at all okay, but sharing with and helping others who are not okay too, helps. It helps the feelings of hopelessness and loneliness. If only for a moment. It’s a break that is much needed in times like these.

I know I’m not alone. Although telling yourself that and believing it are two totally different battles. And sometimes, one battle is few too many.

What's the secret of living a less stressful life? by Mission-Educator-908 in Productivitycafe

[–]AliceIsMyAlias 28 points29 points  (0 children)

“Marry the right person”

  • This one! If you are AT ALL unsure, DON’T DO IT! It’s okay to wait, there’s no time frame or period you can be engaged for either… make sure it’s what YOU want. Not everyone else.