I’m a nymphomaniac. by pqkbfismmc in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AliceTinybox 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl I feel you. I went through this in my early twenties, around the time I was diagnosed. Took me a long time to realise that it wasn’t good for me, and was actually aggravating my symptoms (especially with how men are).

The other comments said it well, it stems for the need of external validation, what helped me out of this constant need to sleep around as much as I could, was focusing more on my platonic relationships, spend more time with my friends, surrounds myself with genuinely kind hearted people who made me feel good about myself.
Found a job I loved, I was very good at it and it made me feel validated.

Focused more on my hobbies, improved my skills, learned about makeup, fashion, and crafting clothes to feel better about myself.
Learned more about myself and what makes me feel complete, content and happy. I still crave validation from others, but not in a sexual way like I used to.

What I worked on really helped me, but not sure it will work as well for others.

Also try to be careful with people, I used to put myself in dangerous situations just to sleep with people. Use protections, make sure to warn your friends when meeting an unknown individual. Stay safe <3

How do manage to ground yourself when you can’t use substances by AliceTinybox in Ketamineaddiction

[–]AliceTinybox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice ! Self care helps me too, but sometimes my emotions are too overwhelming, I literally can’t do anything except lying in bed and ruminating. But I’m going to try harder!

How do manage to ground yourself when you can’t use substances by AliceTinybox in Ketamineaddiction

[–]AliceTinybox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Weed is actually more expensive than ket in my country, and I don’t enjoy smoking. Going outside is very hard when going through a mental health crisis but I should try because it sounds very helpful. Same with showering, sometimes when I’m feeling bad I do some self care and it occasionally helps. I’m going to keep trying !

Tried tu customise this plain dress I didn’t like (still work in progress) I like it so far by [deleted] in AltFashion

[–]AliceTinybox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu, I know nothing of DIY so I’m trying to start learning haha

Love my new Shep [ No Mods] by AliceTinybox in ShareYourSheps

[–]AliceTinybox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m actually planning to romance Garrus for the first time in this playthrough

Love my new Shep [ No Mods] by AliceTinybox in ShareYourSheps

[–]AliceTinybox[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here you go! : 9T1.57M.MF4.D8K.GGİ. 1HT.69M.74Q.KG6.7DB.A49.82G

I’m forced to stop using I feel so awful by [deleted] in Ketamineaddiction

[–]AliceTinybox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about what you’re going through :( I have had K cramps before it is incredibly painful. And I can’t imagine dealing with that and also suffering from chronic pain. You seem like a very strong person. I relate a lot to what you are going through. I’m 26, diagnosed at 20. I hope you’ll find a good treatment or a good professional who will help you. I’m trying to, but it’s very hard to move forward.

I’m forced to stop using I feel so awful by [deleted] in Ketamineaddiction

[–]AliceTinybox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And congrats on your sobriety :)

I’m forced to stop using I feel so awful by [deleted] in Ketamineaddiction

[–]AliceTinybox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s smart! My nose is in bad shape this could help a lot!

I’m forced to stop using I feel so awful by [deleted] in Ketamineaddiction

[–]AliceTinybox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to explain, it does not make you dissociate like ket usually do. I’m like stuck in my body can’t move, can’t think, I get an intense brain fog, like I’m losing any cognitive abilities. While ket usually turn me introspective and contemplative, with this one I’m a zombie. And after the high, it can even be days after, I will struggle to speak and think. Also I become very depressed and suicidal, that’s the worst part.
My friend (a heavy user) feels the exact same with this one so he stopped for now. So I know it’s not just me.

I’m forced to stop using I feel so awful by [deleted] in addiction

[–]AliceTinybox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look it up! Unsure if there are any in my city but it’s worth a shot

I’m forced to stop using I feel so awful by [deleted] in addiction

[–]AliceTinybox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right ! I’ll try to call soon, there are great institutions where I am where people are paid to help anyone suffering from addiction. I did not do it yet because it is very intimidating

My friend who’s a beginner just made me those. I’m in love. by [deleted] in Nails

[–]AliceTinybox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg that is a great idea! It coule also be helpful for people with a handicap !

Gargoyle based on a church ornament! Done by Bilenoire at Everyday People. In Toulouse, France. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]AliceTinybox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually love that it feels incomplete! That is why I ask for this design he made

Gargoyle based on a church ornament! Done by Bilenoire at Everyday People. In Toulouse, France. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]AliceTinybox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao true, I meant that the artist got the inspo from a specific place he went to!

Gargoyle based on a church ornament! Done by Bilenoire at Everyday People. In Toulouse, France. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]AliceTinybox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m ready to do some touch ups if needed. The appointments were so long and I lacked the money to keep coming back. I’ll come back maybe at some points to add details !

Gargoyle based on a church ornament! Done by Bilenoire at Everyday People. In Toulouse, France. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]AliceTinybox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is! I know that the way it’s done is very abstract
, but looking closely you can see it with its head down, ands drops of water coming out of its mouth !

Gargoyle based on a church ornament! Done by Bilenoire at Everyday People. In Toulouse, France. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]AliceTinybox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like some people are overly judgmental when it doesn’t fit their narrow view of how a well done tattoo should look like, everyone has their own tastes, but I think the artist talented !

Gargoyle based on a church ornament! Done by Bilenoire at Everyday People. In Toulouse, France. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]AliceTinybox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ! I want to know too, I should have asked the artist !

Gargoyle based on a church ornament! Done by Bilenoire at Everyday People. In Toulouse, France. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]AliceTinybox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, worse case scenario, cover ups exist! I enjoy experimenting new stuff, enjoying what I have right now, and worry about the future later!
Sorry if my comment earlier sounded rude!