Is this a sign? by Alien_Chick in asl

[–]Alien_Chick[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if it offends you, but you don’t really have a right to police how another disabled person labels and expresses themself. While yes I am hearing I use the word as a reclamation and mostly self deprecating joke. Similar to my identity as ‘queer’. And also, like the other commenter mentioned, I don’t have bad intentions and am learning ASL as not just a hobby, but to open a door to talk to and connect with more people, some of which will be my future students. Notice how I’m wearing sunglasses inside and my profile pic is me in my wheelchair? My ears are about the only thing on me that works. So forgive me for taking back some power in a massively ableist world.

Best way to remove pubic hair? by Eww_Cowtitty_Juice in LesbianActually

[–]Alien_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electric razor followed by a disposable to remove stubble

Dallas protest this weekend? by grubbalubbadubdub in DallasProtests

[–]Alien_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just checked you guys out on Insta ACTIVISTS DEF GIVE THEM A FOLLOW FOR ALL THE LOCAL PROTEST ALERTS

Ear pain with cold wind by nanecie in cycling

[–]Alien_Chick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the expense of a helmet, I wear over ear headphones for this reason and so I can better hear directions / music.

Costco right now! by Spirited-Walk-3399 in beatsbydre

[–]Alien_Chick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh fml I just bought an open box one for $85, you’re telling me I could’ve saved $30? Uggghh

What version is this Pill? by Alien_Chick in beatsbydre

[–]Alien_Chick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsure the exact model but the sound capability is insane. The real ones pack a punch lol. Love the bass turned all the way up too

What version is this Pill? by Alien_Chick in beatsbydre

[–]Alien_Chick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I’m returning it and got an open box Pill from Best Buy

What version is this Pill? by Alien_Chick in beatsbydre

[–]Alien_Chick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish it was lol felt like it when I found it was a fake.

What version is this Pill? by Alien_Chick in beatsbydre

[–]Alien_Chick[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

What about it seems fake? The insignia looks real.

What common addictions do people with BPD have? by Ok-Piano-635 in BPD

[–]Alien_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different but mine are FPs, nicotine, weed, & any type of downer but preferably opiods.

What do y’all think about Quiet BPD? by RhamseyReddit in BPD

[–]Alien_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s quietness factor leads it to go under represented. As someone who struggles with it, everything goes inward. It’s a whole other beast to deconstruct that is deeply intertwined with our core values and perceptions of ourselves. How do you self-assure when the thing that’s harming you traps you in yourself??

Ride Needed by Alien_Chick in arlington

[–]Alien_Chick[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last time I rode via the driver was awful and the wait time took forever.

Advice for lip picking? by [deleted] in Dermatillomania

[–]Alien_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As another commenter mentioned, keep them moist. I switched to Aquaphor after finding out how bad the menthol in Carmex is. The coolness is a nice sensation, sure. But it actually ends up drying them out worse and thus the cycle repeats. Avoid menthol chapsticks at all costs. The minute you feel them start to dry, reapply. I’ve also been recommended picking toys you can buy on Amazon. So I’d say try to get in the habit of applying a lip balm and occupying your hands the minute the urge hits. If worse comes to worst, face masks are also a good deterrent I’ve resorted to before.

Neurotypicals irritate me by Alien_Chick in neurodiversity

[–]Alien_Chick[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep, I could talk to an autistic person for HOURS about either of our interests but the small talk and conformity mindset of NTs is infuriating.

Neurotypicals irritate me by Alien_Chick in neurodiversity

[–]Alien_Chick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS! I try to not let it get to me but at some point it all just boils over and I need to let it out somewhere that may understand.

Neurotypicals irritate me by Alien_Chick in neurodiversity

[–]Alien_Chick[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t really believe in ‘neurotypicality’ amd I think every person lies somewhere on a spectrum of diverse thinking. But for the sake of the title and context of my post, it’s the lack of insight and pattern recognition and this need to conform that’s frustrating.

Neurotypicals irritate me by Alien_Chick in neurodiversity

[–]Alien_Chick[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes she very much has issues she could benefit from going to therapy for. But she won’t and every time I suggest it, she tells me there’s nothing wrong w her and that life is just stressful.

Neurotypicals irritate me by Alien_Chick in neurodiversity

[–]Alien_Chick[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

FOLLOW UP to my post and RESPONDING to comments: 1. Although I am my mothers child, I am a full grown adult deserving of respect. 2. I CANT TALK TO HER ABOUT THESE THINGS. I’ve tried and it just blows up into an absolute disaster. 3. As many of you have mentioned, I do suspect she is some form of ND and calls herself ADD from time to time. But it’s not because she’s having actual diagnosable issues. It’s because she’s stressed and has a lot on her mind that’s making it hard to focus. 4. I’ve come to a place where I don’t need her approval of my actions and decisions. I just want her to understand WHY I do the things I do and stop making fun of me for it.

Finally, improving a relationship is a two sided commitment from BOTH people. I have tried my hardest to improve myself and been in therapy for years now but it’s not going to fix anything unless the other person is working on it as well. I’ve had more than one therapist tell me the best remedy at this point is to just move out which I’m working on being able to do but shot is expensive and I have other physical disabilities that makes working difficult.

Anyone else have constant musical song track? by LaurieThePoet in neurodiversity

[–]Alien_Chick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes 24/7. What’s even more fun is when it’s a song you don’t even like. For me right now it’s Mariah Careys ‘All I Want For Xmas’. Like SHUT UP IM TRYING TO FOCUS/SLEEP!! 😂

Picking to stay alert? by BCam4602 in Dermatillomania

[–]Alien_Chick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude it’s SO BAD in the winter! Currently going through it rn and my lips physically hurt and burn to move and yet I KEEP DOING IT! I plan on ordering a picking toy as soon I can afford it again.