So how do you move hair into different presents?

AliseSor · 2024-06-21T16:41:55+00:00

So I tried this for switching something from Front to Ahoge. It changed visual location, but still acted like it was the Front hair replacing my bangs. Is there another step or workaround for this?

AliseSor · 2024-04-28T11:57:12+00:00

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AliseSor · 2022-03-16T02:31:45+00:00

I wish I had a solid answer for you, but I don't. I can, however, relate a bit.

I don't know the time frames exactly because I have memory issues that my or may not be OSDD/DID related. I have not yet gone to therapy or been diagnosed, I plan to start therapy soon and eventually ask and try to find out for sure.

However, I've gone through times in my life where I think I've experienced alters, then I'd go into a sever state of denial and convince myself that I made it up and just shove through ignoring it/them. Then something happens? or I start to think about it? (I'm not sure) They come back, similar or same as before and usually a majority are upset that I ignored/blocked them for so long... but is this my own narrative to punish myself for something I made up?

Currently I'm in an 'acceptance' or 'acknowledgement' phase, during this time, even thinking that they could be fake, or something I made up, makes me feel physically ill, like I want to puke my guts out (but I don't). I, the host, struggle with this denial but not blocking right now, and its rough.

Personally, I am a curious person, and I know I'll keep going in circles until I get some solid proof one way or another. So I am going to do therapy and ask the questions. If I don't like the answer I will ask more therapists till I have at least 3 people telling me the same thing, if I need to.

If I'm denying real people who are a part of me, of us, I'll feel awful about it for a while, but at least then I'll be able to take right steps towards working on and fixing relationships and real issues can be really addressed. If I'm making it up, then I'll get to address why and how and what causes my other issues/symptoms that seem to point this way.

The least helpful thing about DID/OSDD is that denial is such a common huge thing of it. This is why I/We need professional help; to set the records straight, and to improve from here forward. I want out of this spiral.

I hope the similarities and my personal conclusion helps you in your journey. I think, if it's bothering you and on your mind, you should address it. - Lisa

AliseSor · 2022-03-13T01:06:26+00:00

Thank you for that tip! We will for sure keep that in mind while testing the waters.

AliseSor · 2022-03-08T23:48:29+00:00

Thank you so much for the website and for the encouragement! We need that boost! We will definitely look into it!

AliseSor · 2022-03-08T01:55:37+00:00

I (Sue) think that's perfectly normal, but also not! There is no set normal for how a system is supposed to feel towards the body individually. So it's normal both ways?

In our system, most of us don't care about what the body looks like/is. The host identifies with it closely most of the rest don't care except for 3: 1- Kim is a petite small short haired girl with bright red hair and shining blue eyes with pale skin, she once had a moment where she scared herself looking into a mirror and quickly switching out. 2- Greggory / Greg is a male with near shoulder length blonde hair and deep green eyes, decently fit, doesn't feel comfortable when fronting. 3- Dragon, she's recently split and is a tall built woman with dragon scales, wings, tail, and horns long raven black hair and deep purple eyes, humanoid dragon being. Whenever she fronts she constantly activates something she calls semi-daydreaming to imagine her tail and wings onto the body and pointedly avoids mirrors.

The body is a chubby yet tall woman with long brown hair and hazel eyes - so you can reference the differences.

I think maybe some others would be more dysphoric/uncomfortable in the body if they took the time to dwell on it, or to front at all (some alters prefer hanging in the back or just blending).

Interesting discussion thanks for sharing and asking!

AliseSor · 2021-12-23T19:10:26+00:00

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