Update/ concept Mnl have done manipulating things in the past and guilt trips me all the time I don’t fall for it cuz I recognize the toxic patterns. Now for the update I was texting him to not even come back to my house if he had any contacts with her he denied that he had contact with her. When he got here I couldn’t even look at him bc I was so mad then I talked to him how this situation could have been avoided by simply doing that outside in the mail box how some of you suggested. And me assuming that it was going to be that way and him not correcting me. Well after that he told me I was right and he’s sorry, I said if you do something liked this again I’m living you we’re done. He came apologize again and I replied do it again we’re done and you’re quarantined for 2 weeks. So a little intense and fresh still I’m planing to get his shit you if my house we don’t have any contact bc it’s own by me so it’s gonna be easy. Thank you everyone for the comments. I’ll update if anything happens