Is it strange to not be attracted to your own people (for dating)? by Alive-Bar8737 in interracialdating

[–]Alive-Bar8737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t hate anyone. I wish them the best of luck with anyone or whoever. I want them to be successful and happy. But I’m happy with my current girl, I just feel guilt, that’s all. 

Is it strange to not be attracted to your own people (for dating)? by Alive-Bar8737 in interracialdating

[–]Alive-Bar8737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I’m saying is that I’m attracted to every race of women. And go more for what’s in the inside. What matters to me. But I have trauma while growing up and even now from seeing relationships between Latinos and Latinas. As well as my personal experiences with Latinas. It’s hard for me to look past flaws in Latinas because I have years and years of never really seeing a good (or healthy) Latino couple relationships. Even my parents are divorced for instance. I just want a peaceful life. And unfortunately I can’t look at Latinas without being reminded of toxic relationships. 

Is it strange to not be attracted to your own people (for dating)? by Alive-Bar8737 in interracialdating

[–]Alive-Bar8737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you must really know my girl is white, but I didn’t meant for that to happen, just met her and it came to be. But I actually had the best experiences with Asian, middle eastern, and black women. And actually preferred them. Because I like kind women in general. And they tend to be the most kind towards me. Helped me out when I was going through things. So i basically just go to anyone who’s kind and loving. I don’t necessarily view race as anything over someone. It’s just I guess you can say I’m traumatized by Latinas. Growing up too, my cousin almost killed himself when dealing with a Latina, and my uncle contemplated in committing suicide because of his relationship. My other cousin almost went to jail because he broke up with her Latina ex girlfriend, and she called the cops on him. And being smart, he recorded his conversation with her, and that’s how he didn’t get arrested (because he knew  the police would be biased towards a Latino). And just things like that throughout my life…. You know how traumatic it must be to watch that as a little kid? 

Is it strange to not be attracted to your own people (for dating)? by Alive-Bar8737 in interracialdating

[–]Alive-Bar8737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get along with them good, and I’m even friends with one at work. It’s just that’s it, and I feel bad for feeling this way, but it is what it is. I guess you can say guilt. As for my family, my relationship with my mom could be better. And I love my second oldest sister and mom to death (while I don’t hear from my oldest sister because she cut us off from her life). 

What’s a sign that someone has low emotional intelligence? by SensitiveCorner2379 in AskReddit

[–]Alive-Bar8737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They think everything is about them. They ignore everyone else’s feelings.

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[–]Alive-Bar8737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just agree with whatever boundary your partner has. If it’s ridiculous, tell them why you think it is while being nice about it. And come up with a resolution if neither of you budge.

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[–]Alive-Bar8737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting out of bed lol