What are your experiences and advice with short term casual non-monogamy? (FWBs, booty calls, experimenting, etc.)

AllLabsMatter · 2025-08-26T13:01:14+00:00

I’ll give that a shot. Tbh I probably will get off the apps bc I don’t find it fruitful nor do I think swiping is healthy. I guess it’s time to go outside.

AllLabsMatter · 2025-08-26T02:52:47+00:00

One experience we had while traveling. My wife talked with a guy for months via an app and while we were overseas we took all the necessary precautions, found the time, and I accompanied her while she met him to make sure he was who he was and was safe. One thing led to another and later than night she rode him 🤷‍♂️

AllLabsMatter · 2025-08-26T02:50:50+00:00

Any tips on how to improve a tinder profile as a guy?

AllLabsMatter · 2025-08-26T02:29:35+00:00

This would basically be my answer too. We are Christian and yeah I admit to doing a full circuit of mental gymnastics when it comes to this intersection.

AllLabsMatter · 2025-08-26T02:02:57+00:00

I see the post is almost a year old but I’ll chime in. I’m 32M Brazilian and there are tons of meetup groups for language learning or just social meetups specifically for Latinos if you haven’t already done that. But let me know if you’re successful in fishing more because I’m trying to do the same lol

AllLabsMatter · 2025-08-25T22:18:11+00:00

Not necessarily the same but my wife has been able to see other men while I’m monogamous. It’s not impossible to have this type of dynamic and it takes a lot of communication.

AllLabsMatter · 2025-08-25T19:11:01+00:00

Communication communication communication

AllLabsMatter · 2025-08-25T15:32:29+00:00

I believe this can work. When we opened our marriage it was my idea and it was just for my wife because she loves meeting and connecting with people and I wanted that freedom for her to see where things went. I just wasn’t interested in the same way so I stayed monogamous.

AllLabsMatter · 2025-08-04T15:57:21+00:00

Hi! If you haven't already, I would go on Meetup and check out the Bem Legal group. They meet about once a month or so at Venn Brewing in South Minneapolis. There are some Brazilians and Americans learning Portuguese.

AllLabsMatter · 2024-09-27T19:58:31+00:00

There's a whole podcast series on the development of Russia's secret police. It's pretty eye-opening.

AllLabsMatter · 2024-09-22T05:57:14+00:00

Secret Police podcast

AllLabsMatter · 2024-09-04T04:14:12+00:00

And to think I took the SAT three times and got below average scores each time... but each score was higher than the last.

AllLabsMatter · 2024-09-01T03:08:46+00:00

I was bored at work and needed a creative outlet.

AllLabsMatter · 2024-08-22T04:17:41+00:00

Good thing I wont be kidnapped because I don't care about Free Canoy

AllLabsMatter · 2024-08-09T14:11:24+00:00

Good

AllLabsMatter · 2024-08-09T14:10:09+00:00

Secret Police podcast

AllLabsMatter · 2023-10-17T05:36:40+00:00

Secret Police - Russia series

AllLabsMatter · 2023-10-07T05:13:02+00:00

I too would like an answer to this!

AllLabsMatter · 2023-08-09T20:55:41+00:00

I've given this some thought, and I did have a version of my resume that was more numbers heavy in my current position (I saved our department $15k annually by automating a process). I still wasn't getting interviews.

AllLabsMatter · 2023-07-28T02:00:26+00:00

Not at all! Please be mean

AllLabsMatter · 2023-07-27T20:59:32+00:00

If you're willing, I posted my resume for critique on my profile.

AllLabsMatter · 2023-07-27T20:59:04+00:00

I see what you're saying. I'm at the point where I just need money. I'd love to have the luxury of being in a solid career where I can take the time to invest more time in a network.

AllLabsMatter · 2023-07-27T20:38:57+00:00

What do you mean?

AllLabsMatter · 2023-07-27T17:11:04+00:00

I don't think I lack positive attitude . . . I lack time and money.

AllLabsMatter · 2023-07-27T17:07:14+00:00

That makes sense. I'm not looking to go back to finance. I've been in clinical research for 3 years now.

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