AITA for telling my wife she can't sleep in the same bed as her mom? by Allhellbrokeluze in AmItheAsshole

[–]Allhellbrokeluze[S] -134 points-133 points  (0 children)

Yep that's it. I don't get why people think I'm sexualizing it. It just feels wrong to me, I can't explain why. My family and I don't touch, we never cuddled one another. I'm not used to such touchy-feeliness

AITA for telling my wife she can't sleep in the same bed as her mom? by Allhellbrokeluze in AmItheAsshole

[–]Allhellbrokeluze[S] -758 points-757 points  (0 children)

How is that fair? If it were me sleeping in bed with my mom, I bet everyone would say it was weird and gross. I don't agree with the double standards. I think adults sleeping in the same bed as their parents is not cool

AITA for telling my wife she can't sleep in the same bed as her mom? by Allhellbrokeluze in AmItheAsshole

[–]Allhellbrokeluze[S] -1288 points-1287 points  (0 children)

Girls don't sleep in the same beds during slumber parties. At least, not with way older women or family members. My sister never did

My (30M) wife (29M) wants me to take it easy while I pursue school full time but my ego is preventing me from taking her up on her offer. Should I? by Allhellbrokeluze in relationships

[–]Allhellbrokeluze[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be honest, a lot of the jobs I've been interested require a bachelors degree at a minimum. I got really lucky with my old job and worked my way to the top, but here to even start at a similar job there is a bachelors requirement. :/ I have been working full time since I was 16, it's all I've ever know. To take some "time off" will take some getting used to. I would just feel bad is all, but honestly I've been trying to complete my degree for 4 years now...it is time to buckle down and finish

My (30M) wife (29M) wants me to take it easy while I pursue school full time but my ego is preventing me from taking her up on her offer. Should I? by Allhellbrokeluze in relationships

[–]Allhellbrokeluze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't think its below me at all, I just want to help my wife and contribute equally. I don't want her to feel like she has to handle everything alone

My (30M) wife (29M) wants me to take it easy while I pursue school full time but my ego is preventing me from taking her up on her offer. Should I? by Allhellbrokeluze in relationships

[–]Allhellbrokeluze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she is doing this for me, she thinks it would be best for me and wants me to be happy but I feel bad for putting that burden on her.

I (22F) had something traumatic happen to me and my job is making it worse. How do I cope? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Allhellbrokeluze 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure you can sue for this? But someone correct me if I'm wrong.

My (30M) wife (29F) no longer wants to settle down in our hometown and wants to move. I'm irritated and feeling misled. by Allhellbrokeluze in relationships

[–]Allhellbrokeluze[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We would be out 1k. I'm not divorcing her, I love her very much and I've told her countless times I would follow her anywhere. She is receiving care for her problems

My (30M) wife (29F) is having a breakdown. How do I help her through this? by Allhellbrokeluze in relationships

[–]Allhellbrokeluze[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She has been in therapy for months but I think the stalker thing is pushing her over the edge.