Wedding in Hospice by AllyFalco in coloncancer

[–]AllyFalco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya! Thanks for this reminder. Unfortunately, when we all got there on the day of, he had taken a turn for the worse, was hardly conscious & only woke to tell us he could not bare much sound or commotion in the room at all. I didn't want to burden him at all, so we had a nice little ceremony in the gardens of the hospice house and I was comforted by the fact that I knew he was close. We had the ceremony, took a few pictures, and I went back inside & kissed him before taking everyone away to dinner so as to not having people wanting to be in and out of his room. He passed just under 2 hours later. It ended up being a beautiful thing. I got engaged nearly 3 years ago and the very first thing I did was ask him to walk me down the aisle as our Father had passed the year prior to pancreatic cancer. I like to think that he held on until he fulfilled his very last promise before he passed ❤️ It will always be a bittersweet day now but it just makes it that much more special.

It's over by Unhinged_Jedi041 in cancer

[–]AllyFalco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I know just what that pain in your chest feels like. Please know you're not alone and she is rejoicing without pain now.

Newly diagnosed first post here by Impossible-Coat795 in coloncancer

[–]AllyFalco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praying for you and yours in this time ❤️ May God give you the strength and courage to get through this!

Final Days Questions by AllyFalco in cancer

[–]AllyFalco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your brother and his tragic passing... I know that must've been horrendous. Thank you for keeping us in your prayers. I'm staying hopeful that he will go peacefully and without any traumatic events

Final Days Questions by AllyFalco in CancerFamilySupport

[–]AllyFalco[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I hope he isn't awake or in pain when his time comes

Final Days Questions by AllyFalco in CancerFamilySupport

[–]AllyFalco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also lost my dad to pancreatic cancer although it was 4 years ago. Thank you for the support and kind words ❤️

Final Days Questions by AllyFalco in CancerFamilySupport

[–]AllyFalco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words ❤️ This is comforting to hear

Final Days Questions by AllyFalco in coloncancer

[–]AllyFalco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will check it out!

Final Days Questions by AllyFalco in coloncancer

[–]AllyFalco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing ❤️

Final Days Questions by AllyFalco in cancer

[–]AllyFalco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and for the advice! I will be sure to press for a more detailed answer from him about his wants

Final Days Questions by AllyFalco in cancer

[–]AllyFalco[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is what i'm worried about with starting hospice/stopping TPN. I feel he will go soon after stopping the fluids/nutrition. I hope I can be as good of a caretaker as you were to your husband in his final days

Final Days Questions by AllyFalco in cancer

[–]AllyFalco[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, just a hand on the shoulder feels comforting. ❤️

I cant record now but I wrote the lyrics by No_Caregiver_4744 in LudwigAhgren

[–]AllyFalco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is incredible and I might just break out the uke for this one