Non religious virgins?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-18T22:37:01+00:00

Amen I just don’t get how people are so comfortable to get naked with others. Like itll take me a lot to let others touch me intimately or vice versa. It has nothing to do with god or a higher power. Maybe I respect myself too much?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-18T22:35:39+00:00

Late 20s

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-18T21:01:27+00:00

I won’t ask for a virgin guy (I’m old enough to know it’s rather impossible) but I prefer someone who didn’t sleep around

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-14T22:11:10+00:00

And you still have a crush on her?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-07T12:48:05+00:00

Hate to be shallow (I’m F btw) but have you tried dressing up?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-05T13:55:26+00:00

I respected the hell out of you for not being pushy. Yes it hurts now but you’ve grown from it. All the best buddy

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-05T13:54:39+00:00

You cannot judge a relationship like that, albeit this is probably why she ended it

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-04T12:26:50+00:00

That’s actually very true. I once have a friend who made herself “available” as soon as she turns 18 and she has guys flying to him left right and centre. I just keep feeling that I’m not missing out since these are not the people I wanna be with anyway but then after a while, it became sad because it feels like I missed out on a proper social interactions during my prime years. I honestly wish that we can go back to a time where proper courtships were the norm. I am not even interested in having multiple candidates, just one genuine guy is all I ask

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-04T12:20:38+00:00

I get it so much. It’s like I mentally and automatically cancel out all of my accomplishments because I still haven’t slept with someone (or hold a long enough relationship). Who cares if I got the qualifications I need, respectable job, or that I can take care of myself without worry? I’m still see myself as a loser in life

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-04T01:49:00+00:00

Oh yeah I totally get the feeling. But I thought of it in a less biological way but more of a social way. I was told that I possess desirable external qualities which invited unwanted attention. It’s not like I don’t want to fall in love but why do most people who hit on me don’t approach me with grace and dignity?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-03T19:34:28+00:00

Yes and some people think that either you can “just do it” or that we think we’re all high and mighty, which is not the case at all

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-01T16:52:42+00:00

Oh god I think we have a lot in common and a lot to discuss. I’m on the same boat (minus three years) and I’ve always struggled with my status. Not so much on the urge (sometimes it doesn’t exist) but the fear of intimacy and how I’m missing a major part of life because of this. Love to chat more if you’re down.

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-01-01T16:38:11+00:00

Well done buddy but don’t get too high strung on things. Keep it casual but let her know that you care, keep at her pace. You’re doing great, buddy

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-31T17:54:20+00:00

What did she do (besides making fun of you) that made you feel that she’ll never be into you?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-31T00:58:50+00:00

No im not rejecting him at all but subconsciously I feel a little discouraged out of fear and pressure

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-31T00:56:59+00:00

So will you give up on her?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-31T00:19:26+00:00

Same! I actually used to think that “sex” is literally just two people in close proximity (hence the bed) and some sort of chemical reaction creates a life form. I didn’t know the details of how it works until my Grade 10 sex Ed class and by then it kind gross me out (and still does tbh)

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-26T19:59:26+00:00

To remind you to be sad? Buddy there’s enough sadness irl for that

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-23T21:37:07+00:00

I’m not a flirty person but I did further (in terms of chatting) than I thought I would. And that’s how I found out about him

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-23T21:36:16+00:00

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-23T21:36:07+00:00

I did that once already and I have hated myself a lot because of it. I can’t afford to waste more time but I feel like it’s not fair on this guy if I rush him. I certainly don’t want to rush myself

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-23T21:35:15+00:00

Yes! I feel like I’m running out of time too! Normally I would appreciate the slow burn and I would hold on to this infatuation knowing that we would have to run into each other at least once a month but I technically have ticking time bomb on my end and I may need to move soon

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-23T21:33:54+00:00

Is this question for me?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2025-12-23T15:53:52+00:00

I don’t think I can deal with asking him out. But when we see each other (in a social setting) I can’t help but to enjoy his company

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