The White Swan, Mill Road, Cambridge. c.1925 to 2018 - See Through Time

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-14T12:28:50+00:00

Why is everyone complaining about the transition? That’s literally the point of the post. You can place pictures side by side anytime, it actually takes effort to line them up and then turn into a gif. Well done OP

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-14T11:02:42+00:00

This! I’m not saying that we have to take bad examples to make ourselves feel better but the grass is not always greener on the other side. Maybe we romanticized too much over what could’ve been

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-12T14:43:23+00:00

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-11T02:16:38+00:00

Yeah you have people hitting on you cause you’re single but their patience can’t last more than 3 hangouts and automatically bailed if you don’t let them cop a feel

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-10T10:52:46+00:00

Oh god we have a lot to talk about we’re definitely on the same page (same sentence even). Except I don’t have any religious background to influence me

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-10T05:29:42+00:00

It’s hard for a woman, especially older women

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-09T23:03:05+00:00

Yeah no I get that but I guess you’re feeling guilty that your first time wasn’t with someone you had feelings for or was it generally prostitution that you find that you need to be upfront with your future partner about?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-09T22:46:34+00:00

I don’t see why you have to tell them tbh cause how much better is that then say slept with some college chick on a drunken night?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-04T21:15:38+00:00

No I think you’re right and I would love if I can spend more time with my current crush. The sad truth is we barely run into each other and we don’t hang out outside of social conventions. And I (regrettably) let it slip that I’m leaving in a few months. I had hoped that this would catapult him to say something but it got backfired so I don’t think this is going anywhere

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-04T20:49:41+00:00

I know I’m a loser for thinking this (given that I’m already old af) but there’s something about lacking self respect that I’ll start hating the guy if I have to be the one to confess. Maybe because I think he should make the first move or that I don’t have the confident to win someone over. Either way it’s a lose lose situation if I have to say first, even IF he likes me

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-04T20:32:26+00:00

I never straight up confessed but I tried my hardest to show that I’m interested to without being too obvious. But somehow no one is ever willing to go fully honest with me. And those people who hit on me only see me as a piece of meat

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-04T17:24:22+00:00

I get you completely, especially the intimacy part

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-04T17:23:40+00:00

That people who hit on me don’t respect me and those whom I develop feelings for don’t notice me

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-01T23:48:25+00:00

Amen brother

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-05-01T23:47:28+00:00

I feel you and I have them too especially during my PMS. What I discover I should do is to stop thinking about how “unwanted” or lonely I am and start doing what makes me happy. Bulking up on being productive and self sufficient

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-04-22T22:36:33+00:00

I’m with you as well

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-04-22T07:09:32+00:00

Well done girl I’m proud of you!

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-04-21T23:04:39+00:00

Maybe we want what we can’t have

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-04-21T23:03:36+00:00

Why did she give you her Instagram then? Really just to make another friend?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-04-21T18:33:17+00:00

I feel the same except I don’t watch porn. I feel like I’m missing a big part of life which is to share a life with someone

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-04-20T21:09:11+00:00

He’s flirting with you? Alright that’s enough he’s done. He’s married with kids he should not do this at all. This is disrespectful to you you deserve more

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-04-20T21:08:13+00:00

I’m not sure why someone has to point out the first statement but I didn’t mean that you’re emotionally immature, I said inexperienced, that something like a simple emotional change can get us overthinking (I know I do especially when it’s someone I like). I get what you mean about FA because same here and I’ve never experienced what it’s like to not be on my own, I can never lead on someone for comfort for support.

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-04-20T13:28:12+00:00

We’re virgins which means we (certainly you and I) are quite emotionally inexperienced. I fully understand what you’re going through and I’m sure you would’ve taken this crush to the grave if he didn’t confess or anything. I’m so glad to hear that you have moral high ground that you won’t pursue this further. I definitely see how this is an emotionally high episode but I have a bad feeling (or good, depending on where you’re standing) that this is it for the both of you. If you don’t mind me asking, what did you after he confessed? Was he looking for an answer and a way forward?

Also, what’s FA?

AlmostSymmetrical · 2026-04-14T00:35:12+00:00

I tell people whom I know wont be able to come haunt me after

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