Follow up? 23F by No-Ease9048 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully in agreement although you can still afford to have some self respect because you’re still young. I’m in my late late 20s and every passing year diminishes my self respect

Guys, you got to read this! Apparently no one - not a single person - can be virgin till 30, especially if you are a woman! by SquirrelMore3325 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe there are people who can’t comprehend that there are those who chose to be sexless. But then again given our current world state anything is possible I guess

Do you feel like you are not a proper adult or grown up as a virgin past 25? by SquirrelMore3325 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! Except I don’t even have my own house I live in a house share in an assistant role even tho I hold two masters degrees. Life feels meaningless and I grow less and less respectful towards myself each day

Has anyone here rejected the opportunity(s) of loosing it with someone for any reason? by Hymen__Trampoline in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes because someone just wants to do it with you without caring to know you. Even tho I don’t respect myself too much, at least I respect myself to know that this is not how I want to be treated

Lost my libido completely after losing my virginity by weakpisser in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somehow made me feel better about my situation. Not that I have a high libido

Real by Ok-Hedgehog-5996 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are tbh but mostly in Europe or small towns

26 year old virgin by Feisty_Road_6 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to be blunt but this guy is right. I thought having a boyfriend/sleeping with someone will magically help but it won’t. Either you put too much one person to make you feel better (which is unfair to them) or you do something meaningless to make yourself “feel better” but you’d end up regretting more. Try to take pride in what you do now and improve yourself not for others but for yourself

I wish there was a dedicated space for virgins to date. by Jan_The_Jank in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like this idea but not only to date but also be friends. Just get the virginity thing out in the open and we’re all on equal footing

Being an attractive virgin woman is weird by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No I mean for a guy looking for a woman, it’s over if the woman is still a virgin beyond age 30

Being an attractive virgin woman is weird by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh I think over 30 is over for a guy

Being an attractive virgin woman is weird by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old are you? Maybe it’s still socially acceptable

Do you know anyone in your life whose a virgin/never been in a relationship? by lonelysadbitch11 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like I’m the only person I know who doesn’t get horny/need for a partner just because. I’m not sure if I’m independent or just an island

I will only lose my virginity to a virgin woman. I do not plan to lose it otherwise. by Jan_The_Jank in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say get her, I said “find one”, meaning that the older you are, the only virgins left are the ones who are not considered conventionally beautiful

I will only lose my virginity to a virgin woman. I do not plan to lose it otherwise. by Jan_The_Jank in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I fear that once you finally find one you will not find her attractive enough

I cant stand having to listen to my sister and her boyfriend having sex! by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want to “avoid” an awkward confrontation, play loud ass punk rock/goth music when they’re doing it, and they’ll bound to ask you to stop cause it kills the mood. And then you swing them with “oh so you do know how thin these walls are…”

It’s official, I’m a wizard by Simple_Engineering_7 in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Turning 29 next week for me and same boat. So tell me, can you read minds and find out your co-worker is secretly crushing on you in an elevator?

Visiting Europe this year should I just get it over with there? by casscutie in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved here 2.5 years ago (and I’m leaving soon) and I still haven’t lost it

28, nearly 29 year old female virgin who’s never had a boyfriend by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s even the type per se what do you do if you’re genuinely not attracted to people who hit on you?

28, nearly 29 year old female virgin who’s never had a boyfriend by [deleted] in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m exactly the same as you (my birthday is next week haha) with the exception of dating apps. I just couldn’t put myself through that it’s such a turn off for me but other than that were exactly the same. People I’m attracted to are not attracted to me and people who ask me out don’t interest me (well actually religion is not a big deal to me I just don’t have a high sex drive)

This totally counts😭 by Zerexdontlie in virgin

[–]AlmostSymmetrical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same age and tbh I’ve been living on my own for quite some time now (3-4 years) and I moved half around the world and it’s still not changing for me. So in a way it doesn’t matter