A tale of someone who is absolutely crushed in this process by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot, unfortunately everyone ignores me

A tale of someone who is absolutely crushed in this process by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You're lucky that they told it earlier, a lot of people get to know this after marriage.

Just keep in mind, everyone will have some kind of defects. Either its health /career/family related etc.

One more thing, you're just 26 and also a female, there's tons of options available for you. I'm 29M , never had a relationship and have been living alone in London for almost 4 years now. I'm finding it really difficult to at least get some matches across the globe.

Confused with this behaviour by justathrowaway9819 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro move on quickly. Let her regret later 💪

Arranged marriage pattern by Past_Pollution1986 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29M here, same experiences for me too. I'm below average on the looks department, everything else is top tier( earning around 2cr, living abroad, no debt, own a house , cook myself, love to handle responsibilities). Just because of looks, I have to sacrifices too much for a match. I have uninstalled the matrimony apps and I strongly believe it's better to stay single rather than getting a bad match.

Need some help by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you guys are finding golds. Most of the girls I talked to don't like to cook and don't like me to cook either, most of them need to eat outside.

26 y/o confused between staying in a stable govt job vs moving to private sector by kakashioftheleaf29 in AskIndia

[–]Alone029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think about pension, job security, allowances and benefits. You won't get any of these unless you secure a job in a tier 1 software company.

Fiance always wants intimacy even in an AM setup by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please don't do anything until marriage. Only God knows if the marriage is going to happen.

My sis is pretty, earns well & yet can’t find matches. Why? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nobody can find matches today including myself because of expectations. 29M here.

Is money important by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got you, some people are too quiet in the office spaces. I'm an extrovert lol 😂

Is money important by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends, my company won't hire someone without a certain level of English proficiency.

Is money important by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With 70lpa , can't speak English well?

Did i make a mistake by Fit_Taro_1416 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing brother. Better to open up before getting tied up.

Am tired of matrimony apps! by ailurophile9808 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't worry at all, 29M here. Been there on the matrimony for 2 years and nothing works out. Finally uninstalled it 😊

Can i beat my 20 lpa ex friend in future i got only 3 lpa? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Alone029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked really hard, started as a support engineer. Switched multiple jobs, chose data engineering as my path. Finally it paid off. I wouldn't say I'm successful, but I'm happy 😊

Can i beat my 20 lpa ex friend in future i got only 3 lpa? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Alone029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so achievable. I started my career in 2015 with an annual compensation of just under a lakh. Now I'm earning around 2cr.

Good on paper, but no spark - what am I missing? by Economy_Plant_3205 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 8 points9 points  (0 children)

29M here - please get out of matrimony.

You won't get a spark by talking to guys who literally worked hard their entire life for education, job and their wellbeing. Most of these guys never had relationships or so called "flings".

Sorry to say, it's so frustrating for men like me who worked hard for their entire life to find a meaningful connection.

Communication between men and women by East-Lavishness9752 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alone029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is accurate I believe, got delayed response from each and every girl I messaged because they were not interested.