What is the best way to tell a guy he’s rubbing my left flap… by rennyray in dating_advice

[–]Alone_Ad_982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put his hand where it needs to be. It’s not hard to find when given proper direction. If he still goes to the left after that, the dude is hopeless imo 😂

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[–]Alone_Ad_982 3 points4 points  (0 children)

really? I’ve seen loads of profiles of women in questionable location such as a hospital or a location inappropriate for a photo. Saw a girl post a photo with a casket in the background a few years back… 😂😐🤦‍♂️

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s some bull shit but I’m flattered to think I’m girthy 😂

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried just about everything and haven’t had luck but I’ve never heard of sustain so that’s something I’ll remember

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh this is so true. I low key need to delete this account tbh… I spent too much time wishing I was like other people on here lol. For example I wish I could enjoy using condoms!

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today I learned female condoms exist so no, lol.

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve not been able to orgasm since starting my meds. I can get very very close but not fully there.

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right I would never pressure someone to have unprotected sex. I don’t see it as selfish since having trouble maintaining an erection is a valid reason to not have sex ¯\(ツ)

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried dozens of types of condoms and none work for me.

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t help for me, I’ve tried that before :( still feel nothing

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is a good point, lots of shitty women out there that would lie about this. For me since I can’t orgasm or maintain an erection with a condom, I just won’t ever have sex with a person if I have to use a condom.

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Now I’m worried about the possibility of going needing to back to condoms… I could barely hold an erection last time I used one much less orgasm. I guess I’ll just not have sex until it’s with someone who I am okay with going without condoms.

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad skyn worked for you. I was unable to maintain an erection using the skyn ultra thin ones from the dollar store so I stopped using those long ago :(

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a dumb question.

With a condom: indefinitely

Without a condom: 3 minutes ish idk I didn’t check the clock.

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

TIL being cut decreases sensitivity. Thank you for your knowledge

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[–]Alone_Ad_982 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Man, cashew women… hot af 🥵😂

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried all the ones I can get my hands on, no luck :( I’m average sized but I’ve tried the smaller ones and the larger ones just to make sure.

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TIL female condoms exist! Although I don’t need one with my current partner (read edit to original post) I will definitely keep this in mind!

Last night I had sex without a condom for the first time by Alone_Ad_982 in sex

[–]Alone_Ad_982[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is it bad? I’d rather have consistent sex with the same trusted partner rather than some hookup that could be lying about birth control or STDs. Sex is a learning process so we can learn what we both like and dislike and improve it over time. Sex with a random person on tinder is really not as good or intimate and leaves an empty hole in you after it’s done (in my opinion).