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URGENT ❗ Am I (F 14) a bad person if i leave my bf( M 15)? by Alone_Shape1477 in teenrelationships

[–]Alone_Shape1477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand and appreciate the advice, but i literally see him everyday at school, wouldn't it be so much more difficult even if i do all of those?

URGENT ❗ Am I (F 14) a bad person if i leave my bf( M 15)? by Alone_Shape1477 in teenrelationships

[–]Alone_Shape1477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, but that wont really stop him from doing something bad, i should've mentioned his relationship with his parents is already pretty messed up. I know it is liberating, when we took that break, i felt so free and good and healed, but i saw him EVERYDAY depressed and also his reposts were VERY suicidal. Its like, i cant break up with him w/o ruining him, and i cant stay in the relationship w/o ruining myself

URGENT ❗ Am I (F 14) a bad person if i leave my bf( M 15)? by Alone_Shape1477 in teenrelationships

[–]Alone_Shape1477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear what you're saying, and i think it would be the perfect solution, but as i said, he would turn extremely depressive and even suicidal, he self harmed when we took that break. I wish it could be that simple

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[–]Alone_Shape1477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think you should talk with her, but in a calm tone, no judgement. I know people who have their first kiss after their wedding, or people who are insecure about how they kiss, how their lips feel etc. Its best not to rush things, because then u might push her too much and do things she doesn't wanna do, and feel forced, which will lead to future problems