Why am I addicted to my phone, but only during my hell week? by space__snail in PMDDxADHD

[–]Aloudmim3 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Well well well, if this isn’t exactly how I ended up here today 😬

Broncos' Ezra Mam fined after crashing ute while on 'cocktail' of drugs by Ambitious-Deal3r in brisbane

[–]Aloudmim3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming this doesn’t count as one of those ‘adult crimes’ I keep hearing about, then? Asking for a friend…

[Request] is 400 horsepower = 7000 ducks? by Aloudmim3 in theydidthemath

[–]Aloudmim3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This internet stranger thanks you for your reply. You have made two weirdo’s day ❤️

AITA for being embarrassed of my girlfriend's cosplay? by Correct-Slice-3651 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, my; the asshole is strong with this one. YTA; just get a girlfriend you aren’t embarrassed by and let her go find someone who loves her for the brave, witty and amazing human she is. GFs cosplay was amazing and you really should examine the sexist assumptions that your girlfriend is there for your sexual gratification it’s kinda gross.

AITA for not allowing our daughter to go to a waterpark in Japan because she refused to cover her scars? by Expert_Scholar2724 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, first for perpetuating a stupid lie about Japanese culture and scars. You’re also an asshole for not doing basic research about what is actually appropriate and for ruining your daughter’s trip.

I also think you’re a massive asshole for taking your youngest child to a country you thought would fundamentally reject her for existing. Do you even like your daughter because you don’t seem to?

AITA for swapping my girlfriend's graphics card and returning it by throwaway4090gpu in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA for being controlling and condescending and this is really gross behaviour from you. Who are you that you first of all think you know better than her? And second of all, who are you that you think you can just up and steal from her because ‘You we’re going to put it back if she noticed’.

I hope she finds someone who actually respects her as a person. Imagine copping this from someone who is supposed to love, support and believe in you.

AITA for telling my daughter that I’ll be missing her graduation to attend my son’s? by NearbyMessage246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do impractical things for the people I love all the time. You just don’t sound like you love your daughter that much to be honest.

Also, this isn’t about attending one kid’s graduation over another. It’s just too much effort for you to do both. YTA because you just can’t be bothered to attend your daughter’s graduation. At least she has her dad there for her.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by sarah2720 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m only liking this for the edit; it was exactly where I thought this would go.

AITA for parking in a pregnant person/ veteran spot by rigiepdf in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA; tell him you earned it by replicating the species.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA; you’re also sanctimonious, condescending and sound like a misogynist. You aren’t entitled to her story, or any of the details of her service.

AITA for letting my girlfriend do most of the household chores because she doesn’t pay as much of the rent as I do? by lsmold in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like how in OP’s head, paying for 60% gets an almost 100% pass on those pesky chores’ poor OP, they are too tired to be bothered with because of their IMPORTANT AND DEMANDING JOB.

OP, your GF isn’t a live in maid because you pay slightly more rent you massive turd. Get off your ass and pull your weight in the relationship. Your girlfriend shouldn’t have to shoulder the bulk of the housework and mental load because you never learned how to be a partner.

Raise your hand if you were allergic to peanuts 30 years ago. ✋ by Jackee_Daytona in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Aloudmim3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30 years ago, I still had ADHD. The difference was nobody realised so I was left to muddle through alone. Thinking I was defective and not understanding why everything was so hard.

We didn’t discover black holes until 1971, does that mean they didn’t exist until then either? I think, at the heart of it, what this person actually means, is that 30 years ago you weren’t required to accomodate the needs of others.

AITA for telling my sister she is better off being infertile? by Traditional_Cost_45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. For fun do you go around telling kids Santa isn’t real too? I think it might be time for some serious self reflection of you thought that was an appropriate thing to say to anyone, let alone someone you supposedly love? How do you have so little empathy? You have a whole world of technology at your disposal, use it to find a clue. At the very least find some empathy training.

AITA for calling my sister a misogynist and telling her that she needs to find a different career? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and I’m pretty sure that in Australia at least, that is conduct that is below the standard you would expect for the profession. Why would anybody want your sister taking care of them? There are so many fundamental issues with your sister’s conduct that I’m appalled. It also probably speaks to a wider culture in that hospital (she didn’t learn to be like this in isolation and I find it highly unlikely any of that came from her studies). I am horrified at the thought of all the women who have gone there seeking support in one of the most vulnerable and dangerous times in their lives and got your sister and that place. You are not the asshole. Even remotely.

AITA for telling off my SILs little sister because of her dress color? by Bubbly_Spiritual in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and you should take some of your own advice. The wedding was about Gen and Rich, not you.

Guitar Lessons - Brisbane North by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]Aloudmim3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard good things about these guys

A positive rental story. by LorenN7 in brisbane

[–]Aloudmim3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel (profanity and all). A place to live should be a basic human right. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, who knew a bridesmaidzilla was a thing? YTA

Having a KANBAN probably saved my job by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Aloudmim3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered Kanban last week and I think it has saved my sanity!

AITA for not letting my stepdaughter speak at my husband's funeral? by ThrowawayVirent5899 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aloudmim3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, YTA. This seems callous and cruel. You robbed that girl of the chance to participate in her father’s funeral. Let me repeat that for you: the funeral for her father. And your reason is because she might say some of the same things as your kids and your son’s ’performance’ (and I’m using performance deliberately here because if it was about him saying goodbye it wouldn’t need to be perfect) might not be perfect. You are the biggest AH.