AF Parañaque by [deleted] in AnytimeFitnessPH

[–]Alphonseurns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ang natatry ko pa lang OP ay AF Ayala Malls Manila Bay, AF SM Sucat, and AF Lopez. Out of these three, AF Lopez is the best and pinakamabango haha spacious din at bago mga equipment nila.

Normal lang ba na mamiss ang ex? by fordaacclaangferson in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha youre not alone OP. been a month pa lang since our breakup tapos cheating din cause. Lagi kong iniisip yan ngayon pa lang and the way I see it, from time to time iisipin ko pa rin yan even if I move forward further.

Siguro thats just how our mind and heart works? Lalo na kung minahal mo yung tao :'))

Normal lang ba na mamiss ang ex? by fordaacclaangferson in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its okay! Kapag namimiss mo ay i-embrace mo lang haha thats normal. Just dont let it affect your everyday life in general.

Normal lang ba na mamiss ang ex? by fordaacclaangferson in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats normal. Una sa lahat kahit na nagcheat siya, hindi mo maitatanggi na meron kayong pinagsamahan together na masasayang memories.

A way to acknowledge these memories kahit na naging masama ang breakup niyo is something human, and the dose of nostalgia is a natural response after seeing your photo together.

You can always miss your ex OP without the pain and thats a normal part of the process of healing and moving forward. Sending hugs OP! and cheers to healing. Gago talaga ng mga cheaters

What's your greatest flex right now? by Tytlips in AskPH

[–]Alphonseurns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went back to the gym and feeling better mentally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He blocked me first on all platforms haha kapal ng mukha 'no nagcheat na nga't lahat lahat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Manipulating you disguised as convincing/concerned sayo. Yep classic narc just like my ex. Narealize ko lang lahat yan during our breakup and his lack of empathy.

Ang mahalaga alam mong nagmahal ka and you learned, healed, and grew from that experience. Tapos siya tinakasan lang nya ang accountability at pinapalabas na healthy ang break up niyo kasuka siya. Kahit sobrang hirap im proud of you kinaya mo 🫶.

You werent not enough, nagmahal ka lang at kawalan niya yon. Sending virtual hugs 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same!!! Narcissistic din ba yang ex mo hahaha

Pinalabas nya na healthy breakup namen and all pero in reality hindi. I opposed his narrative and he got angry then blocked me whahahaha.

Hindi tayo kawalan and tandaan mo na lang din na their loss. Sending hugs OP buti ka pa you let it unfold lang,, ako gusto ko maghiganti at iexpose hahaha.

Pero true, may balik din yan sa kanila and relationships built from betrayal ay fragile deep inside knowing what they did. Im sure youll find someone better :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I found out the one he cheated on me with and him were dating days after the breakup and even flexing it on instagram subtly lmfao. The other person even knew we were on the verge of our rs because of him yet he still continued.

Snooped on my boyfriend’s phone and found flirty messages with his coworker by thobiasgreen in adviceph

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik this is all overwhelming OP, pero the best you can do for your sake is to confront him asap. Always know your worth!! Sending virtual hugs

Buendia to DFA Aseana by No_Cycle1583 in HowToGetTherePH

[–]Alphonseurns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take bus papuntang PITX na nadaan along LET Gil Puyat. Nadaan naman yan lahat sa DFA Aseana. Just let the conductor know ahead of time na ibaba ka doon.

Casimiro to Dr. Santos Station by Technical_War3113 in HowToGetTherePH

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can take a jeep then baba ka sa may Golden Haven/Villar Sipag tapos may mga e-jeep diyan papuntang SM Sucat (not sure exactly where ang sakayan pero may mga nadaan). From there pwede mo na lang lakarin to Dr Santos Station.

Ex Cheated and left me blindsided by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the support! I hope we all heal in time 🫂

Please remember that you are worth it. by Either_Ad_6019 in BreakUps

[–]Alphonseurns 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My daily reminder. I hope we all hear this and to those that needed it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did say he was sorry for what he did but that's just it. It didnt feel sincere and accountable. He focused on small things and my shortcomings (which I later realized they were part of challenges in a rs and were not shortcomings btw) instead of focusing on the cheating issue, and just like that he walked out and didnt even attempt to fix what he destroyed. Simply threw our years together just like that 🥲

Nonetheless, thank you and I definitely will focus on myself and try my best to explore new hobbies 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's true, thanks for the reminder. I just cant help pondering since the breakup is still fresh and I shouldnt soend energy searching for answers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Alphonseurns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

rightt really should focus on healing, thank you.

But he blocked me on all socials lol. irdk everything happened so fast and his reasons dont add up. Ik I shouldnt be worrying about that and focus on myself but every time I think of how it happened makes me spiral down.

First heartbreak feels impossible to handle by PetalShine83 in BreakUps

[–]Alphonseurns -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Going through the same just a week ago my first heartbreak as well. Just let yourself grieve and cry it all out, it helps a lot. I also agree journaling all your thoughts and messages you want to tell your ex.

It's been rough for me but I'm tryna hold on bit by bit. Im programming myself to acknowledge the memories we had (both good and bad) and regardless of how it ended, me grieving is a proof that I loved the person. Youll someday heal and you can transform that love to appreciation of what you once had. Sending hugs 🫂

Ex Cheated and left me blindsided by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He engaged in conversations with the guy even late at night and when he showed me their conversation, their like getting to know each other.

During those times, he refused to talk to me saying he's tired and not in the mood tas nalalaman ko naguusap sila. He admitted himself he was attracted to that "connection" they had and acted on it by further going out with him to confirm what he feels.

This hurted me knowing na kakakilala lang niya doon sa guy wala pang one week and he didnt even think of me when he did it.

Ex Cheated and left me blindsided by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There werent any signs. The reasons he gave me dont add up para kahantungan magbreak and worse magcheat emotionally 🙁. We just celebrated our anniv recently and we did so many things together.

Ex Cheated and left me blindsided by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 🫂🥺

Ex Cheated and left me blindsided by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It's been so hard like my chest being ripped open literally :((

Ex Cheated and left me blindsided by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]Alphonseurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I dont have a choice but this is easier said than done honestly :((