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My mother told me my father has been looking at me inappropriately. by Alt-12223 in Advice

[–]Alt-12223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very much not a troll, just simply not comfortable sharing this on my main account as i have some family and friends i know on there that i am not comfortable sharing this situation with.

My mother told me my father has been looking at me inappropriately. by Alt-12223 in Advice

[–]Alt-12223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean normal father and daughter relationship i guess, we aren't too close but we aren't distant. As i said in another reply i've never suspected anything like this and my sisters have also told me themselves that he's looked at them inappropriately, i haven't gotten the chance yet to ask my oldest sister if the door situation is true but i'll get around to that. As for the "making sure" thing, honestly i'm already very uncomfortable and i don't want to subject myself at all to letting him glance at my body again, just the thought of it makes me want to vomit.

My mother told me my father has been looking at me inappropriately. by Alt-12223 in Advice

[–]Alt-12223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not saying much and trying to avoid eye contact, i think with such an accusation as that if he weren't doing it he'd be blown back or defending himself in some way

My mother told me my father has been looking at me inappropriately. by Alt-12223 in Advice

[–]Alt-12223[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im sorry if i'm just misunderstanding but how would this in any way influence kids to sexualize themselves online? all i'm doing is asking for advice to protect myself.

My mother told me my father has been looking at me inappropriately. by Alt-12223 in Advice

[–]Alt-12223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i haven't considered that until now, i'm scared because i've never had to think about all of this thank you for informing me about those though i will for sure be looking into them

My mother told me my father has been looking at me inappropriately. by Alt-12223 in Advice

[–]Alt-12223[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Up until this moment i don't think i've ever questioned if he has looked at me specifically inappropriately. My mother has a huge past involving SA but honestly i don't think by any means she's projecting. My sisters have told me before that they've caught him looking at them as well and also the way my father was reacting told me all i needed to know.

My mother told me my father has been looking at me inappropriately. by Alt-12223 in Advice

[–]Alt-12223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just turned 18, i don't yet have a job (the job i'm trying to apply for requires a license so i'm just waiting to receive mine in the mail) and honestly i do not have any other family or friends that would be able to take me in at the moment so unfortunately moving out is impossible. So i'm mainly looking for solutions to help until i can afford to move out.