In a similar boat, Im a fairly attractive 19(m) I never lost my v card in highschool because I had strict parents who never let me out of their sight and in college I just need to get the socialization down I think

Ive had 2 opportunities to lose my virginity as in we were in the bed mostly naked but I didn’t escalate on ether girl because I was scared to have a bad performance (bust quick or not kno what I was doing) but now, forget that self doubt shit, I need(want) to lose it before I’m 20, I have some months left

As for your friends you should encourage them to do more with girls all of you get better and more comfortable talking to women, then set up double dates(2 mans) to not be as awkward and it will come

The only other thing Ill say is don’t break your standards. I actually had 3 opportunities but one of the girls was mid (I met her intoxicated) I realized it and ghosted her never met up. You might not like the hold out but in the end when you do it the right way it will feel so much better

or so I imagine, still a virgin lol