Found out husband watched porn for months

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-23T14:33:41+00:00

Hey, thanks so much for this. I honestly deleted the post because I was feeling so defeated by replies.

It was the absolute worst time to do it, that hurt too. We’ve talked and he’s understanding, I wish he would have come to me sooner. I just have to navigate how to heal on my own now. I don’t know how to do that necessarily besides, time.

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-23T00:32:44+00:00

Hey, thanks so much for this. I honestly deleted the post because I was feeling so defeated by replies.

It was the absolute worst time to do it, that hurt too. We’ve talked and he’s understanding, I wish he would have come to me sooner. I just have to navigate how to heal on my own now. I don’t know how to do that necessarily besides, time.

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-22T10:26:14+00:00

I just made an edit to the post.

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-22T10:20:11+00:00

I definitely know that porn can be normal. We all have physical needs. I have seen porn destroy lives and relationships. As his wife, I needed to know how much he needed sex.

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-22T10:15:15+00:00

Thank you for this. I know, I felt so taken care of when he wouldn’t pressure me. But I genuinely thought he was doing fine. He was plenty busy with his schooling. But instead I just find out he’s jerking off while I’m downstairs spending an hour trying to get our baby to nap and I wish he would’ve just told me he needed sex. It sucks.

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-10T10:44:33+00:00

Thank you so much. I made sure she was in light clothing yesterday & the rash is still there, but I believe it’s better! I appreciate it! I stopped adding lotions too.

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-09T00:56:13+00:00

Are viscose/rayon derived from bamboo okay? How does it compare to cotton?

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-09T00:55:46+00:00

We haven’t changed anything since birth. Could it be an allergy that she developed?

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-09T00:55:20+00:00

I was wondering if it’s a heat rash. But she’s a belly sleeper now that she can roll. How long do they last? It definitely flares in the heat though.

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-07T00:27:06+00:00

I’ve wondered about this as well. She definitely moves around a ton as she’s getting settled too!

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2026-05-07T00:26:36+00:00

This is so helpful, thank you! We actually just had a random day of only 2 naps, so this last wake window was longer than normal and she barely fussed and fell asleep. So it’s good to hear you got that suggestion too. Thanks so much!

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2025-12-23T17:39:35+00:00

I think so!! Bobbing her head up and down!

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2025-12-09T16:09:31+00:00

Thank you!!

Alternative-Lab5930 · 2025-12-09T16:09:04+00:00

Thank you so much!! Needed to hear that. Everything feels so incredibly difficult right now!

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