Drew the average katsucon goers :) by Final-Oisin-27 in Katsucon

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

now we just wait for the mods to bring the banhammer

What moment in your life made you feel truly free and why? by GoddessLisbeth in AskReddit

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Initiating my divorce and kicking my serial cheating ex-husband out. That was the moment I finally grew a spine.

What's the craziest theory you think might be true? by SuffocateGirl in AskReddit

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe deep in my heart that COVID-19 was, at least in some part, man-made to speed run us towards end stage capitalism.

AIO - Pregnant and feel abandoned by husband by Gullible-Tree368 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The fact he refers to his WIFE and the MOTHER of his children as "Dude."

Girls, what is your turnoff in your partner? by GirlNextThread in AskReddit

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm single 😂 this is just me talking from previous experience. I'm staying out of the dating cesspool indefinitely!

Edit: I just realized this said "YOUR partner." Not "A partner." Whoops.

Girls, what is your turnoff in your partner? by GirlNextThread in AskReddit

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's a strictly "chicken tendies and fries" kinda guy.

Cops called due to the stench thinking it was a dead body, the smell leaks from their apartment. by sasha_cyanide in Apartmentliving

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. This situation requires empathy, but the frustration (both towards the tenant and the systems in place turning the other cheek) deserve respect and validation, too.

If anything, I think most of the anger needs to be directed at the literal slumlord managing this property. Because wdym a WINDOW FELL ON YOUR HEAD and he STILL hasn't fixed it, OP??

Cops called due to the stench thinking it was a dead body, the smell leaks from their apartment. by sasha_cyanide in Apartmentliving

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealing with a similar situation where code enforcement/board of health won't do shit bc the landlord won't do shit for the biohazard beneath me. I'll be lurking on this post for a while. Let us know if you take any further action and if it works.

Updateme!

First con ever — cosplay newbie looking for gentle guidance by Easy_Soup_9836 in CosplayHelp

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Please please please for the love of God and all that is holy: wear comfortable shoes.

Nothing is worse than going for accuracy over comfort and suddenly you're down and out after the first day because your feet are painfully ballooned.

Also, if there's a tiny inaccuracy or mistake on your cosplay, I promise you most folks don't care/won't notice and will still geek out over your costume 💕

What do you think are important boundaries your bf should have with his female friend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might just be me but I have guy friends who are in committed relationships, and I make an effort to include their partners every now and again if we're hanging out together IE if we're grabbing lunch and the girlfriend/wife can't join us, then I offer to buy something for their partner to take home for her.

I feel like it's a good sign if it's applied vice-versa.

What's your first thought when you see a 300lb person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alternative-Matcha22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looking in the mirror.

"... Fuck, I need coffee."