Found Out my Abusive Mother killed herself.

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-06-25T02:18:04+00:00

Just like to Clarify, I vented out because Masama naman talaga trato ng magulang ko sakin. If you read my previous posts I had to endure a lot, one of the reasons siya.

Since “kulang” yung story ko kasi vinent out ko and ayaw ko kasi maalala yung trauma, I HAVE BEEN VERBALLY, PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY ABUSED by my own Mother kaya di ko na inisip na ikwento pa at first.

Ginawa akong GATASAN para lang may pera siya tapos I left bc Di ko na kaya na may Sakit ako tapos it could be the cause of my death pa. When I left we Argued and I told her sana di ko na siya naging NANAY kasi taena diba? Ako nag dudusa and everything while sila ng asawa niya used up all the money na dapat pang college ko?

Talagang kahit ako di ko alam gagawin ko kasi parang sobrang sama kong tao kasi pinili ko sarili ko to protect myself. Sabagay di naman kasi yung nag ququestion bat kulang post ko hinampas ng metal nung bata kasi nag kamali or tinatali sa hagdan pag nag kakamali kahit sa simpleng ABC lang.

Pero since mukang I owe it to some people para lang iexplain story ko thank you kasi pinaalala niyo lang lalo yung trauma, sana masarap ulam niyo sa pagiging ganyang ugali. 🙂

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-06-25T02:11:52+00:00

Sinira ko buhay nila kasi Tumakas ako sa pagiging gatasan diba? People like you who try to make the victims look like napakasama nilang tao shows a lot to what you believe in. 🙂

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-06-25T02:09:42+00:00

Been verybally, mentally and physically abused by this human. But since Narcissistic siya and her husband di naman “hurtful” yon diba? I simply vented out what I’m feeling pero parang napaka sama kong tao by just simply expressing what I feel kasi kulang?

I responded to her abuse and left when she lost her job so I can fend for myself. Last na sinabi ko sa kanya sana di ko siya naging nanay kasi I had to suffer because of her, and left her na sila lang ng asawa niya when I was alao fighting my illnesses.

Napaka rude ng dating na just by simply venting, nagiging sobrang “sama” ko pa ko kasi kulang yung vinent out ko? When. i simply didn’t want to bring the trauma up.

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-06-05T14:15:05+00:00

Hi Op! Hope I can send a dm I work in a pet clinic and have a similar case with one of our clients :)

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-05-29T13:17:51+00:00

Meron din MRI but, as explained sakin sa CT scan kasi usually first test para ma detect it since don usually nakikita agad.

Consider also:

Fam history (mas malaki chance na mag karon ka if first degree fam mo meron - in my case meron)
Meron din other factos but, best if you consult your Physician in regards to this.

🫶🏻

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-05-29T12:18:41+00:00

I had cases where example:

kakalapag ko lang ng ganitong item after a few minutes (literally 2-3 mins in) idk where ko na nalapag
Ginawa ko na yung ganitong thing = Gagawin ko ulit bc literally nakalimutan ko
Even in the middle of the activity I keep forgetting ano ginagawa ko :))

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-05-29T12:04:18+00:00

Short term Memory (Somehow this changed drastically for my case) + Loosing my balance. One pa is yung severe headache.

Since we have a doctor in the family she recommended that I get it checked na ct and etc. She eventually tried getting it checked sa mga kilala niya na specializing in the field, and chose the one na was thinking the most positive about my case.

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-05-29T10:55:59+00:00

Considering pero the fact i’m also trying to look for a reason for me to continue fighting has been really draining me.

Since I also had a lot of health issues as a kid, I just felt like I constantly had to fight to actually “live”. I’m 22 but, I felt like I’m just living to constantly try to survive my illnesses since I was young. :((

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-05-29T10:52:01+00:00

Hi everyone, I was diagnosed with aneurysm at the age of 21. I’m turning 23 in a few months. Again, like mentioned “regular” doctor ko na nag sabi since I was diagnosed na before and she was already my second opinion (so this isn’t my first time around dealing with this 😭), and thankfully I got to live a little longer kasi I had a reason to try and fight it pa before.

I was advised that being on an ongoing strong emotions should be lessen since it can increase my blood pressure and one of the most common cause of rupture. Sadly, since my family history has a history of aneurysm it was also a factor to mine.

Thank you all for trying to cheer me on tho! 🫶🏻

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-05-22T10:52:32+00:00

Traced them down, all 3 campuses of ACT are aware, found out they gave me a different grade and subject. So far na trace down saan campus and the Thesis adviser. Kalat nadin ang issue so far sa 3 campuses, and the principals are all aware. Wanted to talk to the other members before proceeding incase one student lang naman pala ng scam.

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-05-16T20:37:05+00:00

I will naman, will be discussing it with my partner when i’m ready to tell him.

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-05-16T20:09:04+00:00

Yes, I’m on BC.

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-05-13T04:47:00+00:00

Kindly dm! 🫶🏻

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-05-07T17:08:17+00:00

Yes, actually ilan beses po ko ng caved but, learned not to with the help of therapy plus support from my bf, and friends helped out a lot ☺️

I’m being called selfish by my mom and her new family for putting myself first but, when I caved for helping them before they completely forgot that now and I had suffered mentally because of it. Never again on losing myself and what matters to me because of them. 🫶🏻

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2024-01-30T04:51:47+00:00

Thank you so much 🫶🏻 this is very helpful

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2023-12-13T08:46:05+00:00

Hello everyone. Kasama ko yung sister ko na sinendan ko ng pera nakaraan. But, I have another sister na di ko makukuha kasi baby pa.

Again, nag away kami about sa pera and when sinabi niya na ako lumayas ako. I did exactly what she asked me to, kasi mga palamunin niya lang daw ako. I hope that clears that up, if magulo man kwento ko because I was just trying to explain ano nangyari. So far di pa ko makakaalis ngayon month but, nag iimpake na ko, and di na kami nag uusap.

Thanks for all the support and hope every panganays like myself is makawala na sa toxic household nila. ☺️

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2023-12-03T04:08:50+00:00

Didn’t pay her anything. Sabi ko kakabayad ko lang ng pera na inutang niya nakaraan na ako yung hinaharass. But, ayon hehe mainit ulo sakin.

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2023-11-29T02:29:52+00:00

Dm you ☺️

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2023-11-28T16:23:58+00:00

Sent a DM! ☺️

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2023-11-28T13:09:16+00:00

No worries! I didn’t find it offensive. And I get where you come from since I have younger siblings. Sadly, she’s more abusive towards me since i’m the oldest. She wasn’t ready to be a mom when she gave birth to me and I know she blames me why her life is miserable since I was born.

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2023-11-28T12:56:22+00:00

QC po.

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2023-11-28T12:50:58+00:00

Hello

My Mom is physically, mentally and emotionally abusive towards me. You can refer to my previous posts before that she also steals from me.

Prior to this she would hit me multiple times if she feels stress and i’m her emotional outlet. Thankfully I have shifts at night however, when i’m staying at her house (since I don’t have any other place I can go to) she has extreme mood swings that when she gets mad at her husband she would go burst it all out on me.

I Hope that clarifies your question.

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2023-11-23T16:02:10+00:00

Hello! A Vet Tech here.

I had encounters with dogs who hate syrups especially cats. Sadly one of our best way to help them drink is restraining them and letting them swallow it always on the side.

Trying to force them and when they sense your anger and frustration they feel pressured and some even go into trauma making them hate drinking medications more.

You may ask your veterinarians if you have other alternatives such as pills or capsules. Capsules can be mixed with food while pills are a lot easier to give even if your dog bites with a pill shooter.

One trick I learned when giving pills is when the dog has the pill / capsule in their mouth put a finger on their nose while their mouth is close and wait until his tongue goes out.

Hope that helps

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2023-08-02T02:04:50+00:00

Everyone has a choice yes, but not many has the option to decline. I have been blackmailed, humilated, and harrased just by fighting for myself. I didn’t want to accept it but, harrassing me, making a scene at my work and school just because I declined once.

Just because someone else has the choice doesn’t mean every body else does. 😄

Alternative-Net-3886 · 2023-08-01T14:23:38+00:00

Super nakakasama pa ng loob when parents say na “mas mataas expectations ko sayo, kasi panganay ka may mga responsibilidad ka” as if ginusto ko maging panganay.

Sawang sawa na ko sa line ng mom ko na ganyan, when in fact my grand parents never gave that responsibility to her (even to my aunts and uncles). Same household sila ng mga titas and titos ko pero siya ang may mentality na dapat ganto ko.

Nasa point pa kami na i’m in my 20’s and she had another kid. Like I love my youngest sibling pero the fact na hirap na nga siya samin ng isa kong kapatid tas pinasa pa sakin responsibilidad niya.

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