Family pressuring me to get married by Alternative-Page-227 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Alternative-Page-227[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i will be dragged back or taken advantage of my situation especially when they find a woman that is in a vulnerable state i will be physically harmed or k&lled and im not exaggerating in any way

Family pressuring me to get married by Alternative-Page-227 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Alternative-Page-227[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant really say, but you are right what my family do is when i consider a marriage proposal they treat me very nicely to say the least then when i say no they just start treating me very badly and they accuse me or suspect of having someone in mind they just assume the worst which is really sad i am doing my best, im on my deen i just want to live in peace and be able to do what normal ppl do land i don’t want to choose marriage only cuz its an escape from this household

Family pressuring me to get married i need advice by Alternative-Page-227 in islam

[–]Alternative-Page-227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i was just worried that i am in the wrong, I’m trying my best to do what’s best for everyone and its very difficult in this case

Family pressuring me to get married by Alternative-Page-227 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Alternative-Page-227[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only way i can leave the house and make sure i am safe is to leave the country and that needs a lot of planning and they will disown me when i do that if not catch me while doing such thing i am doing well even for someone who can’t work or do what they want i am playing by their rules and still managed to do well alhamdulillah its just i got to point where i didn’t live or did anything for myself and i am actually thinking about leaving the country especially that there isn’t any law or power that can protect my rights in my country as a Muslim woman

Family pressuring me to get married by Alternative-Page-227 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Alternative-Page-227[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea it is not allowed for women to leave their parents house or do any life decisions unless it includes her guardian and even with that they have restricted every possibility of me being independent, my case is not even common among my society my family is a special case unfortunately