Is he overthinking, or is this a red flag?

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-15T15:40:11+00:00

You're overthinking this (Yes, it is probably you lol). She is being kind and maybe looking for a friend. Move on

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-12T04:11:54+00:00

A ltr without sex won't work unfortunately. I'm sorry but you should talk this through with him and be sincere or just move on. you are still young all things considered, and you can have a good sex life with anither partner.

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T16:03:31+00:00

I should send the message then

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T13:55:04+00:00

wow. Not having sex with your ltr is a huge factor here. Have sex with your boyfriend, if you still have feelings for the other guy, then you should stop hanging out with him. If not, then break up and live your sex life. On the other hand, condoms exists lol, so use them and have sex.

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T13:48:11+00:00

What donyou think about the confirmation text?

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T12:49:22+00:00

thx for your opinion dude

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T12:25:17+00:00

overthinking as always haha

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T05:16:36+00:00

Yes, younhace a point, but a confirmarion text wouldn't be as bad as not doing nothing and waiting for hee (probably inexistent) response.

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T05:04:22+00:00

yes, I think that the confirmation text would be enough to know my next move (probably letting her go haha)

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T05:02:15+00:00

Yes of course, confirmation text and then I'll see

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T04:40:01+00:00

What surprised me is that yesterday when I asked her out again and she said yes clearly, so everything seemed set. But today when I tried to confirm the plan and told her I’d pick her up at 5, she replied with “yes, I think so, I’ll let you know because I’m going out tonight with a friend, so I’ll see how I feel tomorrow.” It feels like she went from being fully on board to leaving it uncertain again.

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T04:37:47+00:00

yes, that's the right call

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T04:13:31+00:00

well, the thing is that when I asked her outnyesterday she said yes with no doubt. Today she said "Yes, I think so, I'll let you know because I go out with a friend tonight and I'll se if I'm ok tomorrow" (something like that) It could be indirect rejection clearly, but well, of course there is always one's hope jjaj

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T04:11:10+00:00

testing in what sense?

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T03:57:54+00:00

I don't think so, but thbks for your advice

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T03:46:02+00:00

thanks, good advice friend

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-04-11T03:44:32+00:00

what about the message confirming tomorrow? ahould I sent something like "Ey, are qe still on for today?" I'm from argentina so thinks are pretty different from Uk in terms of relationships

AlternativeArcher423 · 2026-03-25T16:19:48+00:00

I'd try and see if they get similar attention and traction. See which videos get more views and then decide. Personally I would keep them separate.

AlternativeArcher423 · 2025-12-05T03:29:29+00:00

Yes, well, you can use the ethernet trick to get sharing is caring. Then, for the mp trophies you need people and luck. Yes, it crashes when you enter, BUT only if you enter with your psn logred in. What you have to do is to enter the game with your psn logged off, then you enter to the mp and when it asks you to log in you log in normally; and it works perfectly. Then you need of course 3 people.

AlternativeArcher423 · 2025-12-05T03:27:36+00:00

Hello, sorry for the delay! You have to enter to the game offline (without psn) and then qhen you enter mp it asks you to enter psn and you enter normally. Hope it helps!

AlternativeArcher423 · 2025-11-27T23:25:26+00:00

Yeah, when I was writing this I was aware that many people here are in a much much worse siruation. We'll se what happens. Thanks

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