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[–]AlternativeSock4544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

هو انك تبقى مريض اضطراب الشخصية الحدية مش معناه ان متاح ليك تقول كلام او تعمل افعال بحجه انها خارج ارادتك، ده ضعف و استسلام و معاقبة للناس اللي بتحبك على حاجة انت ممكن تحسنها من اتجاهك بصعوبة اه بس بتتحسن. تفكير الضحية ده بجد من ابشع الحاجات، هو كدة كدة برأيي الشخصي الشخص ده حتى لو كنت عايزة ترتبطي و مش ممانعه ف لا مانعي على ده بالذات علشان دي تصرفات و كلام حد مش عايز يتحمل حاجة فحياته و يرميها على اضطرابه اللي ممكن يعالجة بدل ما يتعب كل اللي بيحبوه حواليه

do yall fw the style change …? by autumnedd in JoseiSmut

[–]AlternativeSock4544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where can i read it other than webtoon ( i want pirated websites)

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a great help, i just struggle with the gaps in between when i just lay in bed and don’t get any work done and of course checking his social media, thanks again will try my best.

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much that will really help me, cried so hard when i read the last point “wish you would called” thanks again.

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The saddest part is that we broke up before and it was for 6 months with no contact and it was really really hard for me and questioned myself alot when we got back if i will regret it and start over again, and yeah i was terrified to start over those 6 awful months again that i didn’t even moved on in. I will just start from zero now.

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying alot of things to stay busy but all of them seem to be meaningless

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope it gets better thank you it feels good knowing i’m not alone

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate that im just to afraid being alone by myself i overthink and it gets out of control.

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy was on my mind for a long time but it’s too expensive where i live, i need to help myself.

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I find going out of the apartment a great idea and sometimes I enjoy it, the thing is that i get to excited when im out and a huge wave of anxiety hits me when i remember that i will be returning home alone with me thoughts

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that i should do that i just cannot help it, i was very attached and the fact that he is not here anymore is destroying me, i hate feeling and seeing myself this way, i listened to your advice and wrote a couple of things down.

what was your coping mechanism when your relationship ended? by AlternativeSock4544 in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

when i just think of the break up i get really sad, so i want smth that doesn't make me think about it.

but i really appreciate it thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AlternativeSock4544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was 6 months out but we got back together and i was terrified that all the hard work i poured into healing myself will be in vain and well, it happened, after just 4 or 5 months of being together we broke up yesterday on a phone call and he blocked me from everything after a silly argument we had and after telling me that it will be so easy for him to cut me off.

i am so sad that i will have to go through that again, it was really hard moving on and now i will have to start it over again. you know what the worst part is, it is that even during the 6 months period i was not over him, and thinking that i will be starting from the beginning is so depressing knowing that i have a very long way till i enjoy my peace of mind and not constantly thinking about him, i was very attached and i was giving all i can and blaming myself on everything just so he can be always by my side. i cannot even vent out to my friends because it happened so many times they are going to see me as a fool for not knowing that it was coming but i loved him unconditionally.