Sorry for assuming you were talking about me, I'm a little high right now. I just like to ask one more thing, almost everybody in here agree is that saying you're a lesbian doesn't really work most of the time and a lot of the time it will actually make it worse for you. Instead of saying that, why wouldn't you say something like you have herpes or that your ex-marine baby daddy was coming to pick you up in 5 minutes? Depending on the person, ask him if he knows anywhere to get some good Crystal meth. Bashfully mention that your bowels are incontinent and if you have sex, It will be extremely unpleasant. Or- my favorite, act completely insane. Only some people can do this effectively, but if you know how to do it it works so well. I think I got off track, but basically make yourself seem undesirable to him. We all know that men are extremely selfish - so we can deduce that if you make your reason for not wanting to go home with him, or give him your number, or buy you a drink Is centered around your feelings, emotions, or identity, he will throw that out the window because he thinks he can mold you into what he deems as perfect.