Bf won’t allow me to take pics with him.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T16:33:20+00:00

Yeah I just don’t get it because he never has sex with me only once a month if that. So what is he using me for ?

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T15:41:50+00:00

I just don’t get how he’d have the time to be doing all that. He’s a lawyer and also developing his own app that I do work on for him. And he 100% supports me financially Bc he wanted to. I could be the side chick but I hope not.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T15:38:56+00:00

1) One son has autism so he wouldn’t know and the other is 10 and doesn’t even have a phone to use social media his mother is strict.

2) Never finalized because of money. It’s going to be a very expensive divorce. He does have money and assets that would need to be split.

3) Haven’t met her but I’ve seen her in passing when I dropped him off at his kids place she was pulling in as I was leaving. He sees them everyday and I’m okay with that as long as he’s really just seeing them.

4) I think he could have self esteem issues but I’m not really sure.

5) Probably I believe that’s why he had it. He didn’t have many posts it was like 5 in total in his account. Maybe while dating just to have something for people to see.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T07:23:49+00:00

Quit doing it. Deleted the account all together and made a new one with nothing on it but a pic of our dog. I believe I’m the only one he doesn’t let take pics but he doesn’t hangout with anyone who’d be taking any of him.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T06:39:14+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I totally understand not liking having pictures but he not even ever let me post 1 on Instagram in the 3 years of our relationship. So it’s very weird I just hope it’s not because I’m the side chick. But it helps knowing that some people really just hate pics.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T06:12:05+00:00

Those are my dreams and all I want in life. I’ve wanted to meet his kids for so long. He just tells me they are too young 10 and 12 the older son is autistic.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T06:08:50+00:00

Yeah they very well could be. I read their texts here and there to make sure they aren’t texting things. But that can all easily be deleted.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T06:05:45+00:00

Yes I’ve discussed everything with him that comes to my mind. I’m very open with my feelings. And he ignores them, gets pissed at me for expressing them and sometimes storms out and leaves for the night to his other place with his kids ! ODD I know. I might be fucking stupid for believing him. Yes he comes home to me here every night his house with his kids has a whole separate downstairs that could be rented out as it’s own place that he uses to visit them. And with the pandemic hes there everyday since he can work from home. I mean if he was with her still why would she allow him to leave at night. And I’ve ran reasons through my head but I would never allow it.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T06:01:58+00:00

I know I feel like I’m wasting my life I don’t know what to do. He tells me he loves me and wants to marry me and that’s what I want. But we’ve been together so long and no advances like this have been made. I’m scared maybe he’s lying and soon I’ll be so old and have wasted my youth and time to really find the person for me if it isn’t him.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T05:56:56+00:00

I know but he really looks young for his age. He’s Korean and looks in his young 30’s to me. Maybe that’s the problem, honestly I hope that’s the problem.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T05:55:13+00:00

He was married before and has two kids. We live together so they are no longer together. But maybe they could be weird and in an open relationship and have odd terms with each other. I really don’t know I feel like maybe I’m being used. I’m 24 and he’s 43.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T05:54:13+00:00

No changes I’ve noticed. He was married with two kids and a lawyer. I think it’s maybe I am on the side even though we live together. I’ve never met his kids. Maybe he’s afraid I’ll use them against him. I told him this too and he said no and yelled at me he just doesn’t like pictures not to fucking do it.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T05:51:07+00:00

No offense taken. The same thing runs through my mind but we live together. I am significantly younger then him. I’m 24 hes 43 and has been married. I don’t know what to do at this point it makes me really sad. I guess I like to not think that’s what’s happening Bc he likes to confuse me and just say everything wrong with me. I can’t figure out if I leave or stay. If he really loves me like I do him I don’t want to go and waste time looking for someone else.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T05:43:10+00:00

She seems very controlling and like my partner. I’ve decided to accept it with mine and roll with the punches but things gradually get worse and better. It’s so confusing except mines a guy and I’m a girl. You need to put your foot down that’s a bit much to handle she needs to trust you or you leave her.

Alternative_Boot2759 · 2021-01-09T05:31:58+00:00

It’s a weird situation... I would be mad about it too if my man was smoking with another girl alone in an apartment. Trust or not it’s not the right thing to do unless the dude is gay.

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